My youngest son. He was a beautiful baby, he looked like those babies who appear in formula commercials, with blonde hair, blue eyes and a dazzling smile. His hair is darker now and his eyes turned green, but he is still so pretty, that everybody takes him for a girl when they first see him. I`m sure he`ll grow up to be a very handsome man, women will be crazy for him. He is a happy kid, he has everything he needs and wants. He is strong-willed, we have a hard time getting him to do anything, unless he wants to do it himself. Not even his kindergarden teacher can`t get him to work with the other children in the class. While he is really loving and sweet to me, he is a bit agressive to his dad and his older brother. They fight most of the time and he loses his temper with them, he shouts at them and even hits them sometimes. I`d like to better understand his cardinal T-square, because I think it`s a nasty one, considering the planets involved and their positions. He is most likely going to have difficulties relating to people and I wish I knew how to help him manage things. If anybody here would read my son`s chart from that point of view, it would mean a lot to me. Thank you all!
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Thanks a lot, TaurusGal, everything you said is true. My son is a totally different child in public than he is at home. He is shy and uncomfortable around people who aren't close to him. Like you said, it's as if he was naked in the middle of the street. He never manages to do his part of singing and reciting at school pageants. His voice is so low that nobody understands what he's saying. It's more like a whisper and he obviously can't wait to finish. I always thought this was because of Mercury - Ascendant's ruler - in the 12th house, but I hope he will overcome his shyness in the future. I actually believe that Saturn in the first house is a good position. If only it wasn't conjunct Mars, opposite Jupiter-Uranus and square Pluto! You have a point about the power struggle between him and other males, including his father and brother. He likes to be in charge of things, to be the one calling the shots, to be the leader - his Leo Sun in the house of friends and environment and also Mars in the first house of self. He never gives up when he wants to achieve something and, in the meantime, it's almost impossible to make him do what he doesn't want to do, like putting the toys back after he played with them. I can only imagine what lies ahead, when he grows up! His Taurus Moon helps balancing things and, since it's the traditional significator of the mother, it should be my responsability to bring equillibrium to my son's attitude and behaviour. I especially like his Moon-Ascendant-Node earth Grand Trine. I think it's a great aspect. But generally his chart is full of contradictions and so is he. One moment he's sweet and kind, the next he gets angry and starts crying. Now he helps me around in the kitchen, 5 minutes later he refuses to do any of the things I ask him to do. He asks about his father a hundred times when he's at work, and then he wouldn't even look at him when he gets home. I'm also a little worried about his Aquarius Neptune in the sixth house along Chiron and Lilith (I think it could indicate alcohol or drug abuse), but it's still early for that, my son is only 4. Thank you too, Roudic, for replying. I'm not sure I understand what you mean, it's like you left your post unfinished. So far Placidus worked better for me, but I appreciate the insight. TaurusGal, how does your child's Pluto manifest?
My youngest son. He was a beautiful baby, he looked like those babies who appear in formula commercials, with blonde hair, blue eyes and a dazzling smile. His hair is darker now and his eyes turned green, but he is still so pretty, that everybody takes him for a girl when they first see him. I`m sure he`ll grow up to be a very handsome man, women will be crazy for him. He is a happy kid, he has everything he needs and wants. He is strong-willed, we have a hard time getting him to do anything, unless he wants to do it himself. Not even his kindergarden teacher can`t get him to work with the other children in the class. While he is really loving and sweet to me, he is a bit agressive to his dad and his older brother. They fight most of the time and he loses his temper with them, he shouts at them and even hits them sometimes. I`d like to better understand his cardinal T-square, because I think it`s a nasty one, considering the planets involved and their positions. He is most likely going to have difficulties relating to people and I wish I knew how to help him manage things. If anybody here would read my son`s chart from that point of view, it would mean a lot to me. Thank you all!
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This astrodienst chart also shows a very beautiful 'mystic rectangle' formation. I always consider this to be a 'saving grace' in any chart. Please do not be anxious about this child, ever. Things will work out for him!View attachment 51008
Many thanks, Dhundhun!