Thanks for posting the charts. It is much better than just seeing the written data. The chart tells a story, in the way it is drawn up, the patterns it makes, the aspects as they line up in context with everything else.
OK, I do see a lot of love between you. But is it platonic or romantic? I think he may have Friend Zoned you?
I say that because although there are a lot of wonderful trines in this chart, there are also a lot of inconjuncts, or ‘disconnections.’
That plays out in the Composite chart as well. There are a lot of strong trines to the Mars and Venus in Virgo in the 6th, from the Capricorn 10th. But I am not sure how sexual or romantic that energy is? It seems more spiritual, sisterly, service oriented than passionate. ???
There are 3 inconjuncts between Sun/Merc/No Node in Leo to Moon/Uranus/Neptune in Cap in 10th.
So there is a big disconnect going on there as well. You two are not really on the same page, emotionally.
I think he cares for you, very much. And he has love for you. But is he 'in love' with you? The chart doesn't seem to imply that, in my opinion.
I think he appreciates you and how devoted, attentive and supportive you are.
Now, on the other hand, there is some strong sextile action to the Composite Pluto in the 8th in Scorpio. So there is some passion there, ready to be tapped....Has he made any advances or suggestions that you two become physical in the future?