It's easy to see in my chart.
Just look at my Saturn, Uranus, Jupiter and Sun. All of them are at 11° in different signs.
And they are 'aligned' in an aspect configuration called Yod or Finger of God.
Your chart is really fascinating
It looks as if you are meant to be a spiritual teacher. I think that you should google Teal Swan. She has NN conjunct Chiron and SN conjunct Uranus in the same signs and houses as you. She has Sun and Venus conjunct in Gemini and a Cancer ascendant (5 degrees from yours).
If you would move your planets in the sixth and fifth house a bit to the south, it would look like her placements. Oprah Winfrey also has NN conjunct Chiron. Teal is a spiritual teacher. She is attractive and it has been easy for her to find partners. She has Venus sesquisquare Mars and Saturn instead of a quincunx there. I believe that your quincunxes may be causing your issues and perhaps the Moon on the Asc since you are a man?
I have two Yods and many oppositions just like you, I know how severely frustrating and difficult it is. I also have Venus quincunx Saturn. For me it plays out like this: As I see it, I have to choose between experiencing Venus (love) and Saturn (being respected/maintaining my dignity/being with a responsible, mature, honest and committed man). I cannot be with someone I don’t feel passionate feelings for so choosing Saturn is not an option. I have deep issues of feeling unlovable and unworthy of respect due to father issues. I also have serious issues with the lack of morals people have when they date (Saturn in the ninth).
Perhaps you feel like you can´t get love from women if you are respectful and responsible towards them? It´s a **** if you do, **** if you don´t kind of feeling with the **** Yods
I see that you have Jupiter opposite Moon and Sun opposite Uranus creating a cross with semisextiles and quincunxes forming a rectangle around the cross. I have the exact same formation, only with Sun opposite Jupiter and Moon opposite Uranus. I have never read about a formation that looks like that, but I see those aspects as connected somehow. We project the oppositions. I have met many erratic and unstable men (Uranus). My last obsession was born in your country. I usually like foreigners or men who travel a lot (Jupiter).
Regarding dating, my advice to you is to take baby steps forward. You could for example start with going on dates with women who are not your type, just to practice going out with women and talking with them. I have thrown myself into one disaster after another and I gradually evolve. But it must be added that it is way easier for women. And I have Neptune on the Asc, men usually tell me on the first date that I am the most amazing woman they have ever met and that they see a future with me. When they get near me and all of my quincunxes and oppositions, the roller coaster begins.
Saturn in the fifth probably inhibits your capacity to give out energy, give from the heart, shine and flirt. Conjunct Mars it may inhibit your capacity to take initiative, be assertive and irradiate masculine confidence. But it is possible to overcome saturnian blockages. When I was about 14 years old, I would simply turn around and walk away if a boy approached me because I felt so insecure. I have practised and nowadays I do well on dates.
You could try to take care of your health and just throw yourself out there. Perhaps love waits around the corner. Look at your transits, for example Pluto-Venus transits are helpful