Loneliness,Aquarius moon in 12th house

Hi, So I've recently gotten out of a very on again off again relationship with a very very individualistic person. I turned out to be very dependent, clingy and attached. With a heavy 7th house, am I destined to remain unfulfilled and co-dependent? Is there a possibility that I am an individualistic person myself and can have confidence in having a more dynamic love life? I just really think its time to have some fun and laugh with my friends and get out of the 12th moon in Aquarius. Please tell me if I can and how