Met a Scorpio woman on the net

I have met a Scorpio woman on the social network, and we got befriended.
I don't even know her face or real name, but she is in her late 30s and professional, married with a child. I call her just L, because that's the initial of her nickname in the net, and she is very mysterious.

This is my first encounter with a Scorpio person in my life, so I was curious about the person.

I read from books and forums that Scorpio women are very sexual and also deep and powerful.

But she seems quite quiet, formal and conservative. When I read her posts in the net, she sounds totally committed to her work, and enthusiastic.

When we engage in chat, she is always brief in her answers, and doesn't seem interested in sexual topics. I ask a few worldly questions like that, and think to myself, well she will not talk to me again because she seems not interested, and give up hopes.

And yet, she keeps coming back with positive replies even very brief and short on those worldly questions.

Has any one had friendship with Scorpio woman, or are you a Scorpio woman, who could tell and explain what is going on with this person?

But shes married you say, maybe this is why she doesn't want to engage in sexual topics.

Infact bringing up sexual topics with someone you hardly know, its a no go, especially a scorpio. That would be a total turn off for her.

How do you know shes a scorpio ? have you got her birth details ?

Yes, her birthdate is on her profile, which tells it is Scorpio.

In fact, she told me that she and her husband is not intimate anymore.
She writes a lot about what is happening with her work, and then she writes that she could have new relationship with someone in her work, that she fancies. Then she would say, she was disappointed because the guy was not giving her any attention etc.

So we got befriended on the net, and she told me something about her life and situation. Sometimes she would explain about her sexual life, and her desire to be with other men. I was a kind of just a chat friend. I was not looking for any relationship with her. I was only interested in the person who is a Scorpio.

Then we got very close. But I felt that her response is just too brief and short for someone who shared a lot of private stories. And we said that we would be good friend who could listen to each other and advise each other.

I was thinking, whatever happened to Scorpio woman, sexual, deep and powerful? Or maybe they are just mysterious all the way?

We kept talking on the net, and became closer friends.

She is just a very private person. She doesn't like talking about her much. She doesn't give out much information about her or her life. That's why it feels as she is mysterious and not interested in making friendship.

But she is very responsive talking about or on other topics such as sex or hobbies.

So Scorpio people are maybe very private, and guarded on their home life, but they are also very much interested on worldly pleasure talkings?

This is the impression I got. Anyhow this is the first ever Scorpio woman I have ever met, both in real life and the net. We are still good chat friends.

Her mysterious life was unveiling, but very very slowly and step by step.
Now I found a lot about this person, and feel that Scorpio people might have very interesting character.

Another thing I found from this Scorpio woman is that she is not interested in Religious or Occult topics at all. She thinks it is rubbish. That is weird.

Her work is stressful, and her married life is boring, and she needs some juicy chat in the net under the veil of the net and reasonable amount of privacy in order to give her some refreshment in her life. Maybe she is not a typical Scorpio, or is she? Not sure.

I am an Aquarius by the way.

I'm a Scorpio woman and there are parts of her I see in myself and others that I personally don't. This doesn't mean she isn't a typical Scorpio, it just means that her energy is expressed differently due to some placements and aspects she may have. There are different "types" of us, different phenotypes.

Scorpios, in general, tend to be very guarded and private. We've got a lot of secrets and—dare I say—baggage. We tend to brood in our misery and spare the rest of the world from carrying that burden with us. Even the most outgoing of Scorpios have a carefully curated image. I'm a Sag rising so I'm known to be a very charismatic person but who I am in private and in personal relationships is drastically different from how I present myself. On the rare occasion that someone does discover something about me, they are always completely speechless. I'd be curious to see your friend's natal chart. That could shed some more light on the situation.

It's also worth noting the circumstance of your relationship. She is married and you are providing some sort of emotional support. As you said, she needs some refreshment in her life and a reasonable amount of privacy. Sounds like she's keeping you at arm's length for the sake of her marriage. Scorpios are slow to trust but are extremely good judges of character.

Aquarius tends to come off a bit cold and stoic at times. That can throw Scorpio off. We don't always wear our emotions publicly, but we can sense what's there in someone else. She might not know what to make of you yet. My suggestion would be to maintain your friendship with her and engage as you would anyone else. Pay attention, predict her feelings, her moods, her thoughts and worries. Don't try to figure her out, but show that you understand her.

Best of luck!

Very interesting post, heather. You are spot on in your feedback and advice. Thanks.

As an Aquarian, I am curious and honest. That character must put her off at many times, as you rightly pointed out, she hasn't replied to my message for days. I thought, well that's it. She must have been annoyed or disappointed with my curiosity about her.

But then another couple of days of wait, she came back with positive replies albiet short and sweet, she was still wanting friendship with me.

I could not get her time of birth and place of birth info, due to her privacy concerns. I am not going to ask them too soon.

I think she is having a normal happy looking from outside, married life with her hard working husband and a daughter. She sometimes mentions about her husband in caring ways. But she also makes grim comments about her boring flat sex life in her general life. She is constantly looking for some sort of emotional and sexual pleasure in life, but she doesn;t seem to be getting them in real life.

Last night she sent me a couple of her photos. She looked good. That was a surprise. I never expected them, so I was feeling that our friendship is actually going OK so far.

Thanks.

There is absolutely no way to know anything for certain about this woman because you don't provide her birth information.
But I will tell you this about married women: There is always SOMETHING missing from their marriage. It's either sexual satisfaction (which you cannot provide) or communication (which you can, to an extent, provide) to sympathy or just friendship - which she might be missing because of being so wrapped up in work and family.

Scorpio, and in fact all the fixed signs, are very private. Even if the person is talkative - like YOU are, as an Aquarius I am sure you are not totally open about your most personal feelings. Talkative is nice. Having common interests is good too. On social network. Talking about shared interests is good. Friendly.

Asking her to become involved sexually, (and speech can be seen as involvement) is not a good idea. She obviously has a "one way" attitude about this.....she can complain about her boredom (maybe that is why she is on social network) but she probably won't provide you with any type of closeness which you may want.

She probably wants something "safe" which Scorpio generally wants. Inside, they are very desirous of safety.

Did you show her pictures of you? Did she ask? Do you even live in the same country?
Or don't you know....or are not sure?

the thing about the SN is that you have NO way of knowing the veracity of anything anyone says.

Some people would never portray themselves as anything other than who they are and some people have many disguises....both on and off the internet.
Don't make any demands.
Find ONE particular activity that you both really like. Focus on that and let HER go "off topic" when she is in the mood.
LIN

Only information I have is her birth date 9th November 1979.

She has been using her SNS site since 2009, and has many followers. She put up her office, home and holidays photos without faces in them, and I can see her having public conversation with her work colleagues every day about their work issues.

So I don't suspect she is a bogus person.

I have never demanded anything from her. But I asked about her profession, because she asked mine, and she only tells me it is medical. When I asked further about it, she doesn't give answers to it, so I know she does not want to reveal any further.

We tend to talk in PM, so it is private chat mostly. We got further closer in chatting.

We exchanged photos. We are just good chat friends albeit a bit private.

She does not say a lot in chat, but I can feel that she gets more chatty when the subject is about sex.

I now understand and confirm Scorpio women are extremely private, and safety minded and focused on sex. Well this lady is, you are spot on on your verdict apart from the point where in reality she seems only interested in sex herself than any other topics in the chats, and it is her who initiates chats into the topic.

She also implied that she have had a few ex-marital relationships with people she met on the NET in her local town, but didn't go into any further detail on that.

She lives in the other part of the world from me, so there is hardly a chance that we will meet. We will just be chat friends always during the time of our net friendship.

This is the very first Scorpio woman I have met and befriended either on the net or in real life, and I feel I learned a lot astrologically and psychologically about Scorpio sign, and it was a very interesting experience.

I would imagine male Scorpio people would be similar if not the same psychologically and astrologically.

Senecar said:

I have met a Scorpio woman on the social network, and we got befriended.
I don't even know her face or real name, but she is in her late 30s and professional, married with a child. I call her just L, because that's the initial of her nickname in the net, and she is very mysterious.

This is my first encounter with a Scorpio person in my life, so I was curious about the person.

I read from books and forums that Scorpio women are very sexual and also deep and powerful.

But she seems quite quiet, formal and conservative. When I read her posts in the net, she sounds totally committed to her work, and enthusiastic.

When we engage in chat, she is always brief in her answers, and doesn't seem interested in sexual topics. I ask a few worldly questions like that, and think to myself, well she will not talk to me again because she seems not interested, and give up hopes.

And yet, she keeps coming back with positive replies even very brief and short on those worldly questions.

Has any one had friendship with Scorpio woman, or are you a Scorpio woman, who could tell and explain what is going on with this person?

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She’s married. Being attracted to her is summed up by this: she is using you to stroke her ego; if she didn’t want to be with her husband, she’s have already left — and for you, this is about you choosing someone who you subconsciously know is unobtainable due to a fear of involvement/commitment. In your minds, it’s a “safe” way for you to get your jollies.

It’s twisted and nothing more than ego interacting with ego. There’s a lot of bad karma involved with this type of thing so hopefully you unfriend her and go find someone available.

Plus, she has kids. Studies have shown that parents who engage in extramarital relationships (as you’re blatently hinting towards) permanently inflict damage upon their children — even if the children don’t know about the affair; they sense that their mother’s mind and affections are elsewhere. Like I said, it’s bad karma. Do you want to be a part of something like that? I hope you get out now before it becomes anything more.

Sagcap88 said:

She’s married. Being attracted to her is summed up by this: she is using you to stroke her ego; if she didn’t want to be with her husband, she’s have already left — and for you, this is about you choosing someone who you subconsciously know is unobtainable due to a fear of involvement/commitment. In your minds, it’s a “safe” way for you to get your jollies.

It’s twisted and nothing more than ego interacting with ego. There’s a lot of bad karma involved with this type of thing so hopefully you unfriend her and go find someone available.

Plus, she has kids. Studies have shown that parents who engage in extramarital relationships (as you’re blatently hinting towards) permanently inflict damage upon their children — even if the children don’t know about the affair; they sense that their mother’s mind and affections are elsewhere. Like I said, it’s bad karma. Do you want to be a part of something like that? I hope you get out now before it becomes anything more.

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I am not sure if anyone is justified and has right to judge others and their life style.

I wouldn't be judging others life style for sure. If they are adult, then they have their own right to decide and manage and lead the life style they want and need. As long as they are not harming anyone or break the law, it is their life.

And as for Karma, I am not sure what it is. I have not read about it much, but even if I did, I don't think I would be a believer in it.

My main interest in this thread was about Scorpio people whom I have never met in my life, and trying to trace how their character and attitude are in line with the traditional Scorpio traits described in Astrology textbooks from my recent experience with a Scorpio woman I met online, and confirm or deny with other Astrologically minded people especially with Scorpio members.

Senecar said:

I am not sure if anyone is justified and has right to judge others and their life style.

I wouldn't be judging others life style for sure. If they are adult, then they have their own right to decide and manage and lead the life style they want and need. As long as they are not harming anyone or break the law, it is their life.

And as for Karma, I am not sure what it is. I have not read about it much, but even if I did, I don't think I would be a believer in it.

My main interest in this thread was about Scorpio people whom I have never met in my life, and trying to trace how their character and attitude are in line with the traditional Scorpio traits described in Astrology textbooks, and confirm or deny with other Astrologically minded people especially with Scorpio members.

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It isn’t called judging when I mention that studies have shown...shall I cite my resources? As I said, studies have shown that children who grow up with an adulterous parent are emotionally scarred. So yeah, it is hurting someone...the innocent child. I have way too many friends who’ve had their parents do this kinda **** and it destroyed them. Not cool.

And yeah, I gave you the rundown of a Scorpio woman who’s married and screwing around online...I’ve known a couple. Trust me. It’s a game to them.

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It isn’t called judging when I mention that studies have shown...shall I cite my resources? As I said, studies have shown that children who grow up with an adulterous parent are emotionally scarred. So yeah, it is hurting someone...the innocent child. I have way too many friends who’ve had their parents do this kinda **** and it destroyed them. Not cool.

And yeah, I gave you the rundown of a Scorpio woman who’s married and screwing around online...I’ve known a couple. Trust me. It’s a game to them.

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Well, I think you are seeing the problem from one extreme point. From the woman's point of view, she is doing a great job trying to keep her marriage out of boring and grim relationship, trying to bring her child keep the family together and trying to keep their roof over head.

In that kind of situation, usually the male partner had been doing the similar things, and they are just ignoring the truths so their marriage will not break.

So yes, it is not ideal situation for the people, but it is too simple to just criticise one party without knowing the whole story.

For screwing around, I don't believe that it is just Scorpio people. It is just their attitude is unique and deep strong which makes their psychology interesting.

This video summaries well Scorpio, and I was understanding it a lot better about the sign from the experience.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NnRMIcbOTQU

I also believe there is "game playing" here regarding this woman.....and that she is primarily interested in "feeling better" about herself....but I think it's pretty harsh to attack this poster for asking about a woman he will never meet and may only be ONE of many men or other people she "chats" with. HE is not taking her from anyone or harming her family.

However: I do think this poster (senecar) should think about what he is doing and what he is getting.....especially since this communication can never be more than words on a computer.

And if the woman has indeed already cheated on her husband, she is someone who is not to be trusted.....so I PERSONALLY ....my opinion only.....is that he attempt to converse with someone closer to home with whom he could eventually actually have something closer to a personal relationship. Oh yeah...and who is not married.

the world is full of Scorpio women. Some are sexual, some are not. Some use it like money, or a past time, ....some avoid it entirely, depending upon how "healthy" they are emotionally.

Whatever is true, it is really obvious that this is a lifestyle for her....using electronic methods to have make believe relationships. She may be addicted to this type of thing. And at any moment she could just stop communicating for no reason. And her justification would be: "Well, I'm married. It's just a game. Everyone knows this."

Maybe this is her real birth day...or year...but we don't know that. What is true is that your imagination tells you what to believe, Senecar. But let's face it, there is no future here. Why not try to actually meet someone to share real life with?
LIN

I am quite happy with some net friends I have for chats, and that's all I need

I have plenty of other friends I have in real life to socialise, but it is good to have net friends too.

She is one of my new chat friends on the net, and it is OK to keep in touch with the friends and say Hi time to time, and indulge into the gossips

No one is demanding or requesting anything from anyone. We are just chat friends, and just have chats.

People who look at everything with dark sunglasses and try to problemise everything they see and hear are not really helping anyone, but just tend to spread scaremongering.

The focus in this thread was about a Scorpio signed person and her ways from a real life example, not about meeting up and looking for partners, and definitely not indeed about moral rightness of an individual.