I had a relation to a Gemini man.
What do you say?
Hi out there,
are you really sure that it is over ?
You had a big transformation sextile from transiting pluto on your relationship ruler saturn. But his relationship ruler jupiter is still squared by transiting uranus till next year and he doesn't yet feel a cut off - still tries to fight I would suppose.
Jupiter ruling his 8th house can be of fanatic faith in believing something and if he is convinced about that you are the one for him - there will be still some more action from his side bothering you in the moment- I would assume.
He doesn't yet feel like it is over and with his mercury as his AC ruler coming along with his pluto trine - opposing neptune in 7th - he might be able of a limitless disrespecting boundaries of a counterpart and what he calls as partner - if he is personally convinced about something - mercury also 5th house - own ego house and house of love and romance.
Hello there!
You are totally right!
I wanted to avoid explaining what is happening between us in the opening thread because maybe there will be some prejustice if people know what´s going on. But you seem good enough to check it without pre-info.
BUT - it is all true what you are saying!
Transiting uranus square on his jupiter as ruler of 7th and 8th will hold on until april 8th, 2020 - still some time to go.
i am an artist, and he always was too obsessive to really let me do my things.
toxic kind of feeling.
after the relation to him everything went down for me.
i feel disonnected to my socail contacts... as if he poisened my life
In fact this kinda fits with his jupiter inconjuncting your neptune as ruler of your lifepath in 6th house - work and health.
Yes venus venus conj in connection with moonnode looks fated and his mars chiron conjunct in semisextile with his sun all on your mars doesn't look as easy for you to maintain your personal enforcement for your own goals.I think the only good constellation we have is both venus in taurus?
that´s the reason why this crazy thing lasted for 1 and a half year.
Yes venus venus conj in connection with moonnode looks fated and his mars chiron conjunct in semisextile with his sun all on your mars doesn't look as easy for you to maintain your personal enforcement for your own goals.
he also doesn´t work, just lived from social money. and when he was out of money he asked me for it, this was very abusive. but he never commited it. he said we shared everything. asking me for money is not sharing in my opinion.
there is something in his 2nd house and money... i guess somone told me that it´s in our chart - the money thing.
And he was successful in this- at your end - I assume ?
And he was successful in this- at your end - I assume ?
Your empathic libra moon in your 4th house rules your 2nd house financial income and is aspected by his sun, his jupiter, his saturn, his moonnode and his chiron - a small army against you - you had to resist.
true that, i also had to struggle with the death of my father 2 years ago, which made me vulnerable. i was confused, angry. i projected the anger on him. and also his behaviour never helped me to heal the pain. but he learned me also certain things. this relation was not unecessary. i just wished i could be with my father in hospital. but it was very fast when he passed away. since my mum was also sick (psychotic) and i had to decide to be with my mum or with him (they are divorced and live in different citys) my fathers actual wife was with him though. but i regret so much that i wasn´t with him. and after his death i met that guy. so i was very weak at this moment in my life, which give him the chance to push my buttons even more. and hit me even harder
Oh - you have my compassion and comprehension - sometimes life can pull the strings in a very special way bringing people together.
Transiting uranus square on his jupiter as ruler of 7th and 8th will hold on until april 8th, 2020 - still some time to go.