With the posted house system, Venus (Libra) is the ruler of the 9th house. Generally, though it is a good idea to see what transits are going on in a particular house of interest, and this would be a Virgo house in the whole signs house system.
I wouldn't use a natal chart for this kind of fortune-telling.
Congratulations on heading back to school!
Maybe a more important question is what academic field are you pursuing? Each field has its own more-employable and less-employable specialties, so please talk with your professors and academic advisor about career prospects in your major field, and about the specific courses that will help get you there.
Career-wise, I think one of your big issues is that it seems hard for you to stick with one thing for very long-- unless it can offer you a lot of internal diversity and variety from day to day. (Uranus-MC square moon; , intercepted sun, Mercury square MC, Neptune square sun.) So this would be something to inquire about, if you know you'd hate a routine 9-5 desk job.
With that Venus-Jupiter in Pisces, you seem to have a rich imagination so I hope this is something you can put to good use.
So far as relationships go, your 7th house of permanent relationships is ruled by the moon in your 7th house, which ties into your moon-Uranus square. Your relationships may start and end suddenly.
Incidentally, I think you'd be good at astrology! It might not pay the bills, but that Uranus conjunct MC, first house Aquarian Mercury, and sun trine Uranus look promising.
Whoops, I got confused and saw 9th instead of 8th. That pesky late ascendant! xD
Whole signs would put Virgo in the 9th but in this case it's in the 8th, that changes things, a lot. Hopefully dreamer comes back to tell us which system she/he feels fits best. Unless they're already aware of the different methods and choose placidus over all else.
Can you post this as a horary question? It goes by the moment of the question, not your birth data. If you have children, you really need to think of what's best for them.
I will say that your 5th house of children is ruled by Mercury. With Mercury in your first house, your children seem to be really, really important to you. But I think they've been aware of tension between you and Dad for some time, because Mercury is part of a T-square involving the moon and Uranus.
I divorced my ex husband after 20 years of marriage with two children at home, and the whole process what just awful. Today they are adults in their 30s and seem to have made their peace with it. Obviously a lot depends upon your children's age, personalities, and whether you can keep the divorce fairly amicable.
Good luck with all of this, dreamer.