Hi Jean Bean. I'm new here as well. I have been looking at a type of astrology called
Magi Astrology lately, and from what I've gleaned so far, you do indeed have at least one powerful sexual aspect, as Magi principles assess things.
...According to current Magi perspective, the sexual planets are
Venus, Mars, Pluto...and also the asteroid Juno. Traditional astrology holds Juno to have more significance in marriage; however, Magi claims it is an asteroid of pure SEX.
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Here are some
Juno keywords, from the site of a magi astrologer,
www.magihelena.com :
Sexual magnetism, allure, casual dating, desire, sexual attraction, sex without emotional involvement, deception, illusion and delusion, addiction, manipulation, infidelity, selfishness, broken promises, narcissism.
You have
Venus Parallel Juno in the declinations (geocentric declinations are another dimension of reading charts that Magi observes. ...You'll have to do some reading on the basics of Magi, as I've been doing, if you want to understand the basic concepts.)
Venus-Juno natal aspects are considered "Super Sexual."
Your
Juno is conjunct your Saturn, as well. So, if you combine some of the keywords for Saturn, "control, dominance," your situation is perfectly accounted for:
Control and dominance in sex.
(You can add Juno, and any other asteroid, to your chart at the astro.com "
Extended Chart Selection" page, from the "Additional objects" menu at the bottom of the page.)
(I'm actually pretty impressed that your situation is so tidily answered by Magi...makes me even more interested in continuing to study it.)
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Your
Chiron is significant in your chart, as well...conjunct your Midheaven, part of a tight T-square with Uranus and Venus
(Well, actually a Grand Cross, with Jupiter... You have powerful "planetary geometry." As well, assuming your birthtime is fairly accurate, all 4 planets involved are at the angles--Wow--a powerful individual, I'd say.) As well, your Chiron is opposite your Juno in your
Heliocentric chart--again, this is a Magi focus that you'd have to read about. ...Chiron is very significant in Magi astrology. Here are the Chiron keywords, again from Magi Helena's site,
http://www.magihelena.com/magi_lessonsyms.htm :
Soulmates, marriage, serious courtship, promises, commitments, fertility, pregnancy, family, children, parenthood, lovemaking, kindred spirits, karmic ties, reincarnation, the New Age, progress, free will, life and death, personal and public trust, charisma, image, public recognition, career, earning power.
(I also have a Venus Square Chiron. Though I have a strong desire for an intense "soul mate" type bond with someone, it seems there has been a lot of inner pain and healing for me to do in life first...including a lot of other, non-soulmate, relationships. I am hopeful, though, that it is destined...even if later in life.)
If we use the Chiron themes having to do with love relationships, then Chiron in opposition to Juno might suggest a tension between your desires for straight sex and your desire for a committed love relationship, perhaps perceiving that the twain shall never meet?
As well, you can't ignore that prominent
Uranus, connected by challenging aspects to Venus and Chiron. Uranus keywords include "
Independence, freedom, rebelliousness, unconventionality, restlessness, resistance to limits, iconoclasm, excitement, change..."
Uranus conjunt the IC might suggest a need to radically change your homelife from time to time, which may be unsettling to partnerships, should you be living long-term with someone in your future.
...If you do want to read more about the Magi ideas, their "official" website is www.magiastrology.com . They have some free "mini-books" to read there, to get you started. Lots of celebrity examples of relationship analysis to wade through. Their presentation is kind of disorganized, IMO; as well as a lot of superflous, redundant commentary. ...Their tone is kind of annoyingly arrogant and judgmental about traditional astrology, which I thing garners them the backlash they attract...but if you can come to overlook that, you may find it quite intriguing.
EDIT: I don't believe that Juno had been discovered to be related to sex, at the time of the publication of those 'mini-books' they have on their site...It is a more recent 'discovery,' they claim. However, you will see it brought up again and again, as being prominent in the relationship charts they have on their site, of affairs that don't lead to marriage.