I am Sag sun, however i am leo/virgo ascendant i believeI believe you are a Saggitarius, not a Leo, if you were born on Dec. 20th.
You're a Virgo ascendant. And Libra moon. Nothing at all in Leo.
In what ways are you struggling? It's impossible to give astrological advice without knowing the backstory. How has love been a struggle for you? How has career been a struggle for you? And education? Your chart doesn't tell us any of those things. It's up to you to fill in the details.
I don't make predictions like that. Realistically, you could meet or date someone anytime. If you were to enter a significant relationship, it would be noticeable, astrologically, in retrospect: we could look at your chart and transits, and there would be a number of significant transits at that time. But those same significant transits could correlate with other life changes, and not necessarily with starting a new relationship. Until it's happened, it's impossible to say with certainty whether or not the transits actually mean a new romantic relationship.Yes could you advise id there will be chance of meeting or dating
Do you mean you've never dated anyone at all? Different people mean different things by "no experience."as i am 30 this year but dont have any experience..
And what happened to cause those gaps?i had hard time with education took me many gaps and finally completed BA after 10 years of gaps. Maybe because of my retrograde jupiter but i had to go back and forth for it.
Do you mean you've never dated anyone at all? Different people mean different things by "no experience."
If you never have dated anyone, what's prevented you? Again, it's impossible to give advice without knowing the details of your own personal story.
And what happened to cause those gaps?
I think the fact that you completed your education *despite* all those delays does speak to your Jupiter, but has little or nothing to do with your Jupiter being retrograde. Your Jupiter is a singleton: the only planet you have above the horizon. As such, it has to do the above the horizon job of your entire chart. Jupiter is the part of you that is public, and that you want to have publicly acknowledged. Jupiter is, as you know, also scholarship. It really mattered to you to complete that degree and have something you could show publicly for it.
Your Jupiter being in a t-square, with so many oppositions, could speak to the reasons why your education was delayed. Did a shakeup in your family, home, or country have anything to do with it? Jupiter in tight opposition to Uranus and squared by your Moon could speak to that. A likely timeframe for that configuration to be triggered would've been your Uranus square, which happens to everyone sometime between the ages of 19 and 22.
Sounds like you live, or have lived, in multiple countries. Did you immigrate as a child, or an adult? Or adolescent?Yes i was in Uni at 19-22 but didnt complete.. i was not motivated, lazy and was not into studies at all. Then i went to my home country for 1 year, where i got TB and had to come back to where i currently live.
As for relationships there were 1-2 ppl that came my way but it would not work from innitial talks..
met someone in 2016 dec, for 3 months through parents but it didnt work .. i felt confused and quite judgemental about him physically- although that person was complete package and all my friends and family liked him..
Sounds like you live, or have lived, in multiple countries. Did you immigrate as a child, or an adult? Or adolescent?
So much in Sagittarius, and in the fourth house, suggests an experience of living among foreigners, or as a foreigner, likely from a young age. We could also be looking at a clash of expectations around education. Sagittarius is motivated to learn for the experience of learning, but not for the achievement.
If you're straddling different cultures, it sounds like part of your problem with relationships might be a clash of cultural expectations around what dating means and what relationships look like. Does that sound accurate?
It also sounds like you don't really want the relationships that others want for you. There's nothing wrong with not being attracted to someone. If you're not, then they're not the partner for you, no matter what others think.
Do you know what you do want from a relationship? Are there people you genuinely are attracted to?
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A couple things stand out from your chart. Your planets are mostly below the horizon, which means that much of what is important in your life will be invisible to the outside world, but of great significance to you. The concentration of planets in your fourth house suggests that a big part of knowing yourself will involve exploring and coming to terms with your family heritage. It is not easy, because you have that Neptune and Saturn in the 4th house of home and roots, so there is hidden suffering and perhaps, dishonestly among the people in your home--or perhaps, as was in the case of mine, a refusal to talk about things and covering up things that might be considered shameful that have motivated how people treat you, which have nothing to do with you, really, but their lives. You have difficulty understanding this because other family members keep so much hidden.
Your chart, if it is correct--could be read as showing that you would be happier without a relationship that drags you into another family situation, having enough to deal with in your family of origin already. That Virgo ascendant might mean that you face the world expecting to be criticized, which makes you uncomfortable in social situation, keeping people from appreciating your energetic, hidden, but interesting Sagittarian nature. You appear as self-sufficient and not emotional to other people. That doesn't really fit with how you feel inside, but you will in the course of life run into people who can see who you are beyond that surface (due to their chart connections with yours.)
I was truely confused as he didn’t match my expectations also the fact that he was super nice to me scared me even more.. he was what my family wanted for me and he was man of many peoples dreams with career, money, and personality.
But not your dream. Trust me, when you better know and appreciate who you are, you will be able to see the men who fulfill your dreams.
I felt very old at 30, and married someone I should probably have not married thinking that I was on the brink of old age and spinsterhood. It was only when I was in my late 40s that I met the man of my dreams. At the time he had no career and no money. He was so unsuitable for me that people who knew us both were very insulting. But he had a wonderful personality a sharp and curious brain, and a kind and loving heart. He was very good looking too. I have Mars in Libra and a man has to be very good looking for me to be interested, though my idea of "good looking" is often quite different from what you see in the media.
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