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Unread 07-19-2019, 07:27 PM
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And btw, I want to add that I did purposely make myself less attractive to repel sex predators, to not attract flies, to not attract bad guys.

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And btw, I want to add that I did purposely make myself less attractive to repel sex predators, to not attract flies, to not attract bad guys.
I get that maybe thatís what I was doing but I wasnít feeling like Me. It was making miserable but now Iím happy enjoying the dressing up and makeup etc x
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Re: Pluto conj Libra Asc- averse to beauty??

Hkk, is good that you enjoy it. Is good to do something that makes you happy.
Everyday I go to work completely without make up, is so liberating. I do admire those people that are willing to wake up every morning earlier just to make up and go to work. What I admire here is their quality of determination to look pretty and consistency of doing it every single day. These are mental strength put into actions. At the very same time, the quality that I do not like is if they've bad intention of using the power of beauty to unconsciously sway people to liking them and side on their ideas to gain more votes etc. For me, I just don't like people making appearance so much of a big deal. I do appreciate appreciate beauty and understand is human nature. I was in the 3D art field in the past but not anymore. When my best friend need my help, I do make up on them for free.

Just to help people understand this aspect more, I guess I should share some life experience that I think is due to this aspect 'Pluto conjunct Libra Asc' in 1st house and I have to add that I have lilith in pisces, nessus conjunct venus too which I believe have also contributed to have happened to me... So here: I have been told I am cute, pretty, beautiful, sexy, fat and ugly too. I have been hurt in many ways concerning beauty... So some of the life experiences: 1)I was selected 2nd place in the beauty contest in my primary school (No make up, we're around 9 year old) (I don't know why teacher make such stupid contest. When it comes to selection, my group pointed and pushed me out). 2)I was almost raped when I was 9, I manage to run away. 3)I was a victim of molestation. 4)My sister doesn't want to be close with me and one day she told me, people can be jealous of me. 5)My bestfriend like a guy but the guy likes me, I did not date the guy but my bestfriend still left me, she comes back after a year but we are distanced since then... 6)A random stranger teen boy rode his bicycle next to me and touches my face(no make up) and then run away. At that time, my bestfriend were with me... Later, in some letter exchanges she told me she was jealous of me. 7)The brother that bullies me and I hate him, one day after I put on make up, he comes to me so near that he stared at my eyes so closely and touches my eyelashes and say my eyes is so beautiful and asked did I put on fake lashes. Quietly, me really loathe at what kind of person he is....
These are just some stories... so because of these experiences may be I hate looking good myself but at the same time I appreciate beautiful things and make things beautiful. I like anything beautiful too, it is human nature but is important for people to look beyond that and see more importantly what is beautiful on the inside of a person.

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Re: Pluto conj Libra Asc- averse to beauty??

Sounds like you have horrible ppl around you and your so mixed up in it all your blaming yourself. Remove yourself from these ppl and live YOUR life. Your best life. Your best friend is insecure and needs to still grow enough to not care if ppl like u and love herself. Your past that. Sheís not for you. Sheís not a friend. Never mind best. Your better than that. You will have new friends on your wave length who donít care if your hot. Your brother is a fool and a coward. If you live with him kick him out or you move. Do u live with parents? Why donít they say stop this. Your sister is the same. Remove yourself from her too. You need to live a better life surrounded by supporters not haters. My motto: **** the haters! Anyway your beautiful and makeup enhances it so do what you want. I know you have been thru hard times as you described molested etc which I awful and should be reported. I know what you mean about liberated with no makeup which Is good but donít stop wearing it due to what happened to you. Fight back. Good luck to you my friend 😊
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Re: Pluto conj Libra Asc- averse to beauty??

Thank you, Hkk.
My eldest brother is my mom's first child so he is the most beloved. When my elder bro violently beat me and my younger brother and we reported to mom. Mom only somewhat scolded him. She couldn't lay a hand on her most beloved first child and really spoiled him. Today, she seems regretted though.
I have removed many people in my life (those that hurt me and don't appreciate me) and now I am living like what people says Pluto first house people are mostly lonely people... may be not all but my pluto is exactly conjunct my Asc so may be that is why I am so lonely... I only have my husband as my friend... but he doesn't talk much so my communicative moon in gemini is sad...
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Re: Pluto conj Libra Asc- averse to beauty??

Is this a cultural thing? You from India? I know it friends on family but some families still have this backward mentality about the dons and men in general. Get away from all of it. Respect yourself. Never mind loneliness. Go out have fun etc💓. Your brother should be reported. Donít blame yourself for peopleís ignorance and mentality. Grow stronger from this! If your a good person be proud of this and your not like them. If you believe in yourself you will meet loving ppl who support you. Communication is key. Tell your husband how u feel. If he truly loves you he will communicate with you. Only you can fix the loneliness by being around ppl loving nice ppl and spend time alone loving yourself. Eg spa days alone or bubble baths etc🥰
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All,

Please get back to astrology. I'm going to leave the non-astrological comments but future comments should link back to astrology in SOME way. This is NOT a Forum for making general psychological advice pulled out of the air: it IS a place for discussing astrological charts and what they mean.

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Re: Pluto conj Libra Asc- averse to beauty??

Itís not Ďgeneralí or Ďpulled out the airí. Itís from my HEART ❣ However rules are rules so I wonít reply without linking it to astrology 👍😇
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All,

Please get back to astrology. I'm going to leave the non-astrological comments but future comments should link back to astrology in SOME way. This is NOT a Forum for making general psychological advice pulled out of the air: it IS a place for discussing astrological charts and what they mean.

Back to astrology,

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Thanks PlutoLibScoAsc for your posts. Seems consistent that there would be heightened sensitivity to manipulation in relationships (libra) by appearance (theme doubled by 1st house placement), interest in deeper relationships, vulnerability to abuse (Pluto in 1st).
I would also think one could see some of these themes become more available to consciousness as well as transformation over the lifespan, as young people are more vulnerable to sexual abuse.
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Re: Pluto conj Libra Asc- averse to beauty??

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Hkk, is good that you enjoy it. Is good to do something that makes you happy.
Everyday I go to work completely without make up, is so liberating. I do admire those people that are willing to wake up every morning earlier just to make up and go to work. What I admire here is their quality of determination to look pretty and consistency of doing it every single day. These are mental strength put into actions. At the very same time, the quality that I do not like is if they've bad intention of using the power of beauty to unconsciously sway people to liking them and side on their ideas to gain more votes etc. For me, I just don't like people making appearance so much of a big deal. I do appreciate appreciate beauty and understand is human nature. I was in the 3D art field in the past but not anymore. When my best friend need my help, I do make up on them for free.

Just to help people understand this aspect more, I guess I should share some life experience that I think is due to this aspect... I have been told I am cute, pretty, beautiful, sexy, fat and ugly too. I have been hurt in many ways concerning beauty... So some of the life experiences: 1)I was selected 2nd place in the beauty contest in my primary school (No make up, we're around 9 year old) (I don't know why teacher make such stupid contest. When it comes to selection, my group pointed and pushed me out). 2)I was almost raped when I was 9, I manage to run away. 3)I was a victim of molestation. 4)My sister doesn't want to be close with me and one day she told me, people can be jealous of me. 5)My bestfriend like a guy but the guy likes me, I did not date the guy but my bestfriend still left me, she comes back after a year but we are distanced since then... 6)A random stranger teen boy rode his bicycle next to me and touches my face(no make up) and then run away. At that time, my bestfriend were with me... Later, in some letter exchanges she told me she was jealous of me. 7)The brother that bullies me and I hate him, one day after I put on make up, he comes to me so near that he stared at my eyes so closely and touches my eyelashes and say my eyes is so beautiful and asked did I put on fake lashes. Quietly, me really loathe at what kind of person he is....
These are just some stories... so because of these experiences may be I hate looking good myself but at the same time I appreciate beautiful things and make things beautiful. I like anything beautiful too, it is human nature but is important for people to look beyond that and see more importantly what is beautiful on the inside of a person.
I really identify with this. Thank you for sharing these experiences. I struggle with self-esteem and body image as well. It's kinda strange... I mean I have similar experiences but I don't have a Libra AC with Pluto conjunct.

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I really identify with this. Thank you for sharing these experiences. I struggle with self-esteem and body image as well. It's kinda strange... I mean I have similar experiences but I don't have a Libra AC with Pluto conjunct.
What do you have moonkat? It breaks me heart to read this about ppl as I never used to be confident as I am now. And to think back I know how it feels x😍
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Re: Pluto conj Libra Asc- averse to beauty??

I found this thread because I have this placement, lol. I've been searching around because I understand Libra risings to have great style. I have Pluto in my first house and now I'm in my mid-30s I feel like I have a Virgo rising approach - classic simple clothes that all go together so I can focus on other things. I do care about my appearance but I don't want to stand out, I prefer to have a simple look but not frumpy. Minimal lines, great stitching, luxe but comfy fabrics, and nothing that gets in my way, so to speak. No frou frou. But that's just me. Oh and pants, I don't like how skirts fly up and make me feel exposed.
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