waybread
Well-known member
melissamarie, sometimes "understanding" only takes us so far. The main thing is to look after your own well-being, as your mother has a very difficult chart (and life, apparently) and she may not be emotionally able to give you the support you need. I suggest that you love her because she is your mother, and this is the right thing to do; but to realize that she can't give to a daughter what she has not been able to create within and for herself.
Hopefully you are close to a sister or another relative or friend who can help you through your emotionally trying times.
Oh, and there's always us!
Hopefully you are close to a sister or another relative or friend who can help you through your emotionally trying times.
Oh, and there's always us!