And i thought my perceptions were messed up...
lol everybody got different perceptions, if someone likes to hurt/to be hurt to get pleasure it's nothing wrong. when everybody said to not go i thought much worse things than physical abuse.
And i thought my perceptions were messed up...
lol everybody got different perceptions, if someone likes to hurt/to be hurt to get pleasure it's nothing wrong. when everybody said to not go i thought much worse things than physical abuse.
"physical abuse" is a much wider term than just enjoying some aggressive sex or feeling some pain.
Perceptions..
Leo
hear me out .. the best BDSM foreplay is take yellow pages phonebook.. pour come gorilla glue on a side where the pages are.. wait until glue dries, then spank him!
well Mars indicates, aggression or a fight, can be physical, Moon/Mars can mean emotional anger. Here is what besiegement means http://www.skyscript.co.uk/gl/beseiged.html
pay attention to ' planet trapped by hostile forces on either side.'
I don't want to say he is going to be physically aggressive but maybe you will have a fight.
Leo,
A suggestion, say things like he has already been here twice, right in your first post. The more information you give in your opening post, the more it helps others understand the situation. That perhaps would have helped people not to wonder at your question: why it is so bad to visit him.
I think the post below explains it well. I also think there is no need to pounce at the OP because they are trying to understand 'the why's and the wherefore's' because they have only been told it is bad to visit. If you are unable to answer it, let it go, but why bring in other things such as: you are not accepting that three or four or five people have asked you not to go. The OP said nowhere that they are not ready to accept that. The is one's own interpretation of the OP asking: Why is it bad to go there.