I wouldn't say I'm crazy about her but I am interested. In my eyes, she stands out, and I think there is something there (personality wise) that would make that so; something that I may find interesting. She's a looker, holy ****, but I tend to look more in relationships than that. You can be as pretty as they come but if you have no head on your shoulders, than I don't find that quite attractive. She gives me the impression there is significantly more to her than meets the eye; so, although I'm not crazy about her I am definitely still open.
Based on her reception, I don't see interest. She doesn't say "hi" to me when I come in, she's more reserved and stepped back. If I approach her, she smiles, is very polite, laughs, and just what you'd expect from someone who is polite. However, she doesn't accept my Facebook request, and as said above, she doesn't approach. So, to me, that doesn't really seem like someone too interested. So, as you say "she's not interested romantically" I agree. To me, at least, I could be wrong, but I just don't see it.
Our conversation went back and forth. She was "interested" in what I study, but it seemed like she wasn't too interested, gave the typical responses that would end the conversation, such as "oh, that's cool. Ah, that's interesting, most people haven't figured out what to do with their life, blah, blah." Just really short things. No follow up. But she was stuck in her books. She said she had exams, she was stressed out about her studies, and so forth.
Apparently the vibe towards me in the coffee shop has changed. I was a regular but now I just show up and they have my cup of tea ready. Her mother apparently works there? She was eyeballing me lately and I've sort of got the vibe that I shouldn't really go there anymore. But it wasn't any nasty look per say, but I just get the sense that I don't belong there.
You speak of obstacles? Maybe school? Maybe how I approached with the letter? Maybe someone else? You know, most guys think with their dick so she probably has a lot of guys that are interested in her. Probably a lot of guys much more attractive than me as I'm not in my best of shape right now. I'm by no means ugly, but I can definitely be a lot more physically charming.
Anyways, I don't know if that helps at all? Thanks for all your inputs!