Ukpoohbear
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I looked back on this spread I did last year about this same guy. The meaning of the cards has changed to me now I have the blessing of hindsight and so I thought I would share my thoughts on the meaning of the cards.
This is the spread:
And these are the cards I got for it:
The first card represents me and I got the 7 of cups. This represents wishes hopes and dreams but it can also represent choices in love. There has not been much choice in love, as in, I haven't had to make a decision between two guys, so so far it has been representative of me wishing and hoping and dreaming for this connection, which is very true.
The card to represent him is the fool. In his chart he has no retrogrades and a couple planets at zero degrees, which to me indicates a new stage in his soul growth and evolution, which corresponds to the fool's journey. I know he is currently healing from a painful breakup which could represent the fool beginning over.
For our connection card I got the 6 of cups. This is the card of the past, soul mates and also of the past repeating itself. All has been true so far. When I first met him, I got a feeling I had been here before but it wasn't exactly a good feeling, it was a feeling of remembering I had been previously unfulfilled. At first I thought it was because he reminded me of an ex but it could also be a past-life connection between us. The point could be that we came together in this life to resolve some past issues and we aren't actually going to be together forever.
The 4th card is the relationship strengths card and it was the emperor card, or in this deck, the 'king of the ocean.' This card confused me for ages and it still does. IT could mean there is a structured approach to our relationship but in actuality what hindsight has shown me is this card represents him. He is the one in control and pulling all the strings, he is the one ends the communication and returns. This is not necessarily a good thing but it is what is keeping us 'together.'
The 5th card is relationship weaknesses and I got 5 wands. At first I thought this card meant we argued a lot but the 5 wands is notorious for meaning competition in love. This meaning has proven to be true. He always leaves to go with another girl. Not nice, I know.
The last card is the true love card. It also shows potential weaknesses. It was the ace of wands. At first I thought this card meant there was a spark. There is a spark but Im not sure that is the only meaning now. Aces are notorious for meaning the beginning of something that never becomes established and that has been true of us so far. Our connection has not gotten off the ground. IT is also the card of friendship and maybe this slow build-up is good in the sense we are slowly building the connection between. Or maybe, it is destined to never get off the ground. More time will tell It is not the worst card to get but still not exactly a 'true love' card.
This is the spread:
And these are the cards I got for it:
The first card represents me and I got the 7 of cups. This represents wishes hopes and dreams but it can also represent choices in love. There has not been much choice in love, as in, I haven't had to make a decision between two guys, so so far it has been representative of me wishing and hoping and dreaming for this connection, which is very true.
The card to represent him is the fool. In his chart he has no retrogrades and a couple planets at zero degrees, which to me indicates a new stage in his soul growth and evolution, which corresponds to the fool's journey. I know he is currently healing from a painful breakup which could represent the fool beginning over.
For our connection card I got the 6 of cups. This is the card of the past, soul mates and also of the past repeating itself. All has been true so far. When I first met him, I got a feeling I had been here before but it wasn't exactly a good feeling, it was a feeling of remembering I had been previously unfulfilled. At first I thought it was because he reminded me of an ex but it could also be a past-life connection between us. The point could be that we came together in this life to resolve some past issues and we aren't actually going to be together forever.
The 4th card is the relationship strengths card and it was the emperor card, or in this deck, the 'king of the ocean.' This card confused me for ages and it still does. IT could mean there is a structured approach to our relationship but in actuality what hindsight has shown me is this card represents him. He is the one in control and pulling all the strings, he is the one ends the communication and returns. This is not necessarily a good thing but it is what is keeping us 'together.'
The 5th card is relationship weaknesses and I got 5 wands. At first I thought this card meant we argued a lot but the 5 wands is notorious for meaning competition in love. This meaning has proven to be true. He always leaves to go with another girl. Not nice, I know.
The last card is the true love card. It also shows potential weaknesses. It was the ace of wands. At first I thought this card meant there was a spark. There is a spark but Im not sure that is the only meaning now. Aces are notorious for meaning the beginning of something that never becomes established and that has been true of us so far. Our connection has not gotten off the ground. IT is also the card of friendship and maybe this slow build-up is good in the sense we are slowly building the connection between. Or maybe, it is destined to never get off the ground. More time will tell It is not the worst card to get but still not exactly a 'true love' card.