Think of it as an educational experience, and you'll get through it. Saturn Returns ARE tough, but very, very useful, if you stay aware of the 'wheres' and 'hows' of it affecting your chart. Mine was extremely rough (Saturn hit my natal moon at the same time, since I have a Saturn/Moon conjunction): I had my first child at this time, and what a shock it was to suddenly be a mommy!
If you can embrace Saturn's lessons, the Return is actually a very positive phase of growth.
AG