Aspects in red represent personal challenges in life that need to be addressed in order to activate the more positive ones in blue. Typically we all have a combination of both in our charts, to one degree or another.
You can study your Nodal Axis to get greater insight into what your path of destiny is trying to tell you about yourself. With your South Node [Pisces] you have an inherited compulsion from your past; a need to feel a deep connection with others, giving you a powerful urge to merge; you seek after in-depth connections, involving compassion and empathy, and probably have an embedded fear [at the level of the psyche] of being alone or feeling isolated.
This is also reinforced by the Moon in square to Neptune [confusion and distortion] in your chart. You tend to pick up on the energies of others, without even realizing it, and many of your feelings may not necessarily be truly your own, yet you react as if they were. Your heightened sense of empathy can make it easy for you to also feel the sorrows of others quite deeply, and thus become overly immersed in their trials.
Pluto is also square to the Nodal Axis and this can create obsessive tendencies tied into the theme.
The South Node hows what we are attempting to unravel and overcome in this lifetime, while it's opposite, the North Node, shows the path we are meant to travel towards to undue our karmic burdens. Ultimately you are meant to become more reserved in your emotional reactions in a practical way, [without becoming repressed]; this comes with the need to relax the urge to merge and pay attention to the practical and realistic demands of your reality.
Learn more about this factor in your chart here:
http://northnodeastrology.blogspot.com/search/label/NOrth Node Virgo
There is no point in 'hating' particular aspects in the chart, for they are there for your learning.
Rather it is the afflictions to the Moon that create perceived difficulties within the self. Moon in Scorpio can be very intense with a possessiveness that often triggers jealousy. Jealousy is often the result of your own inner insecurities and feelings of weakness; it is not 'caused' by others, but shows an inner need to have a healthy balance between your own yin and yang energies. I have Scorpio as my rising sign, and I know the difficulties it can create, which are often really of our own making. At the same time, Scorpio can also be highly intuitive and passionate, but the psyche tends to seek out emotional intensity as a challenge to your own self-awareness. Your inner self has a 'deep-seated need for transformation and rebirth' and so this is what you tend to attract in life.
If you find your life becomes too regulated and mundane, you tend to stir up things 'to test your own strength and endurance'. Being of the fixed modality, you can also exert a great deal of perseverance and determination. Try to remember that it is usually through adversity that we become emotional strong because we develop a strong survival instinct. Self-awareness and acceptance is the best way to handle this deep need for emotional drama.
Saturn represents our karmic baggage that we are attempting to purge in this life. In the 12th H it can lead to intense depressive episodes, and with Venus it does show a propensity for great losses and disappointments in matters of the heart, but again that is about proving our endurance in the face of difficulty. I also have that aspect in my chart.
On the plus side, Saturn with Pluto shows a great ability to endure by using self-discipline and control over the emotions. You are capable of great 'transformations' in life that comes through your personalized experiences and these can be felt deep within the Soul, as you gain maturity.
When life gives you lemons, learn to make lemonade. Aim to create your own good in life, rather than focusing only on the negative. That is a big key to success and feelings of fulfillment.