I don't have any of the aforementioned aspects that the OP listed. I do have Venus, Sun, Mercury in the 9th house, in addition to the ruler of my 9th is in my 9th. The ruler of my 7th is in the 8th.
I was once married and I've always been considered the "foreign" one in that and every other relationship I've been in, even though, the only thing that's really "foreign" about me is the "ambiguity" of origins. I am foreign born but that was because my parents were visiting some relatives and happened to on vacation when I decided to come into the world. My ethnic mixture has always been a puzzle for everyone, esp. men. People find me to be mysterious even when I flat out tell people things.