I agree with Serendipity here. Maybe you both need to give it some time and space..Horary charts only last maximum up to 3 months ( or so I am told ) so don't be alarmed if the results you see or the situation in the chart is not a promising one. I don't think either of you should try to push this,since there will be no results ( it's like someone places a rock infront of you both and either way you go you will trip ). It's hard whenyou can't push or pull,or when you do it just doesn't take you anywhere,so maybe you need to put your...manos al aire and let something else guide this. I know ''wait for more time to pass'' is easier said than done,as any type of waiting produces anxiety,fear and worry about the situation,but I don't believe things between the two of you are 100 percent over.
Edit: for the people that understand Horary much better than me...can someone tell me who ( or what ) is the Mercury then?