I was 18 when I got married.
Her parents said we were too young.
But we were both of legal age to choose for ourselves and were driven along like sheep to the slaughter by our own unconscious motives. Naturally, neither of us was going to listen to her parents.
I shouldda listened.
What I find interesting in putting these two charts -- yours and hers -- side by side is the roles Moon and Saturn play in both charts.
In both charts, based on the whole-chart pattern, we find Moon is leading and Saturn is trailing. In other words, both and each of you is "contained" by a Moon-Saturn relationship.
Here's a brief quote from Liz Greene regarding Moon-Saturn contacts [aspects are specific as to the dynamics of the interplanetary relationship, but all contacts between a given pair of planets partake in one way or another of a certain basic nature]:
The security of family ties is an illusory one, and it is often very dangerous...to command emotional support from others. ...The person with Moon-Saturn is generally courting pain and disappointment if he seeks to bind these external things to himself by emotional need.
And in both your chart and hers, the entire body of the other planets is contained between Moon and Saturn -- in her case a very powerful quincunx (participant in a yod with Moon at focus...she needs attention and nurture, for her father doesn't fulfill that need) -- and in yours a wide cross-sign trine (but square by Quality).
Moon-Saturn contacts may indicate taking on responsibility at too young an age.
Your previous thread asked about financial matters. I interpret that as though you are saying "I ain't got a pot to whizz in or a window to throw it out of." And this present thread can be taken as asking, "Should we elope?"
Both you and your lovely lady are led into life by Moon -- emotions and feelings, immediate responses to pressures, need for nurture, desire for a sense of belonging... unconscious drives, emotional imperatives.
If you were my grandson, I would tell you, "Son, be patient." But my son never listens to a thing I say, and I don't expect you will either. Godspeed. We gotta do what we gotta do. The important thing is to have fun doing it, and after the ball is over to figure out who's at fault for all the spilled milk.