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I don't see why people would possibly lie about themselves or others they know..
Yet you do the same.. I mean you commented about someone you know.
Celebrities are a no no for me.. you will never know what is really going on behind the scenes.. You see what they want you to see.. You hear what they want you to hear. I believe that most of those relationships are fake ones mainly for business reasons or for covering something else..
I don't believe that just Cancer ASC is enough for someone to not have a relationship till a very old age.
But I believe that Cancer ASC and Saturn in 8th H especially when paired with Neptune/Uranus/North Node in 7th are strong indicators of a person that is not going to have a relationship when it is considered "normal" and it is even possible to not have one at all. I mean.. there are many people in their 40s, 50s, 60s who did never have relationships or sex.
Many people like that exist.
8th H in Aqua with a Saturn in it is alone enough in my opinion to stay a virgin..
I mean if that is not the perfect combination for such a thing then what is?
It is not only Saturn making it kind of impossible.. but it is also the Aqua sign, the most detached sign of all in the 8th H which rules intimacy.
I am myself like that, I have everything I mentioned above in my chart. Whenever I see a post about someone having no relationship nor sex they happen to have this combination. Of course I've just known a few of them both personally and even more from forums that they were asking if they will ever have an intimate relationship.
Now.. I know some who have a Cancer ASC and they have Uranus or Neptune in their 7th H.. They may have unconventional relationships or stay out of relationships because they feel pressured.. I also see people with Aqua venus especially having problem with relationships.. BUT they've had sexual contacts at some point at a "normal" age. The key here is the combination of Capricorn 7th H and its lord in 8th H. 8th H represents intimacy, a relationship without sex is a platonic relationship.. which is completely fine if that is what the native wants but I don't think it's the case here.
I am not a pro by any means, but I've seen this pattern a few times, I happen to have it too and I mean it logically makes sense.. Like even if I didn't have it myself and I hadn't known anyone with it.. if you asked me what in someone's chart would make the person to stay a virgin forever or be a late bloomer I would definately think of Saturn in 8th H especially if it's retrogate. Mars in 8th H if in detriment/fall or receives hard aspects would be my second guess.
A ruined 7th H could also be the culprit IF the person needs to be in a kind of stable relationship in order to have sex.. so if no relationship occurs for that person (because of the "ruined" natal 7th H) then it is natural for that person to not have sex even without having a problematic 8th H. I hope I am making sense.
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To your previous answer (my comment was deleted previously).
I do understand what you mean with the urges.. That is why I told you that I remember my first strong urges were at the age of 8 but I was ready for sex at 16.
My boobs though didn't stop growing like yours unfortunately
I had a woman's body since age 12.
Do not worry about forgeting things, it is natural to not remember everything especially in these cases when we have many things to say but we try to make the reply as short as possible.. (yet in my case it always end up being huge somehow heheh)
Believe me I do feel your fear for Saturn Return especially since it will be in 8th H.. My mind goes to death of someone very close to me immediately.
I see that your country it is like mine anout 15 years ago. People who went to psychologist were seen like dangerous people because of mental problems.
Men here are not rude generally (I mean there will always be rude and kind men in every country, but the majority of them is not rude) BUT they are unfaithful they cheat a lot.
Honestly patient is a trait that I admire but I don't have (although others see me as too patient for some weird reason.. I feel the exact opposite). Especially with so much Aries energy in your chart it is a miracle that you are patient. Very well done!
As for that lady who lost her virginity at 47yo.. no one has the right to humiliate her for her choice or bad luck no matter how weird it seems.
Her husband shouldn't do that and she shouldn't allow it.
I get what you're trying to say but being blunt is not an excuse for being disrespectful.
Your mother though.. hahaha I can even imagine the kind of look her face makes when she says that to to you..
I really hope that you will be in a good stable relationship soon although I have my doubts to be honest because of your natal placements
(same and wven worse goes for mine too)
Thank you for the compliment, I am happy that my comments make sense at least simce I am not a native English speaker and on top of that I'm making typos bwcause I'm using my smartphone.
I see your natal Jupiter is in your 3rd H which definately helpful and expands whatever the third house represents like writing, thinking, talking etc. So I guess being a writer or something related to Mercury is a good choice.