Hi,
Seems people do listen to Kitchy.
Early menopause issues can have many causes which might find an association within astro. correspondences. Without a chart it's a case of merely guessing any possibilities. From OP's post,
hmm i am having tr saturn opposing my natal moon and tr pluto from 8th squaring for ever!
I can't see how transit Saturn opposing Moon, meaning a Moon in Gemini, can mean that Moon is also undergoing a square transit from Pluto in 8th.
Depending upon its aspects Moon in Gemini can show a nervy behavioural pattern.
pluto is transiting my 8th currently squaring my 5th natal venus and venus is my 6th ruler
This could explain the 'hormone upheaval' as it means that Libra is on the 6th house cusp. Libra has associations with the feminine ovaries/fallopian tubes (one ovum release per side in alternate months) rather than the Scorpio ruled reproduction (fertilised ovum).
Transits Uranus in Aries and Pluto in Capricorn squared each other earlier in the year. If this coincided with aspects to natal Venus, there could be a correspondence with 'a sudden jolt' to hormone balance. This could also find a relationship with a sudden change in 5th house 'romantic issues' that, in turn, affected the system. It would seem that Moon and Venus in Air signs must trine each other if both are affected by the current transits
of Saturn and Pluto. As AIR represents agility of movement in all 'tubes' of the body, transit Saturn to Moon could be producing 'a blockage' of some kind in the system, just as it could be blocking feelings in terms of accepting a condition of reality in life.
Pluto's house rulership (or interception) would also provide more information, as would Venus's meaning in its rulership of Taurus.
Aside; the astrological point MEAN transiting Black Moon Lilith is currently in Scorpio. There are strong associations with the inner child , issues from or regarding childbirth, and images of that which never physically occured, yet take on an inner reality of their own. It would be interesting to note any (dis)connections from its position that apply to the current situation.