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Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

Or maybe totally unsexy?

I am just asking this because I am a Virgo Rising and men are rarely attracted to me, even though I am not ugly. Well, I am a bit chubby, but so are lots of women, and I think most of them do get asked out.
Truth be told, I am not exactly flirtatious, nor am I particularly extroverted, but still, NEVER being approached by a guy must mean something, right?
The only few times a man was being remotely flirty with me was when I was the one to initiate a conversation...without intending to get flirty.

I have been told I look like an old maid before..or like a librarian/nerd. lol. I guess I am not particularly romantic or fun and flirty, but that's because I am not interested in such relationships.
I am quite emotional(3 planets in Pisces:Sun, Mercury, Venus), but not romantic in the candle-light dinner, cherry trees in blossom sort of way.

I also have Venus conjunct Sun, both opposite AC, and Saturn conjunct Neptune, making a 7 degree orb trine to my AC, and Pluto making a 4 d sextile to my AC.

I also know this other girl who is a Scorpio Sun, Leo Moon with Virgo AC who is 2 years older and has never had a bf, as well.
I also knew this guy in high school with Virgo Rising who didn't have a gf.

These were not ugly people, either.

I also think of Virgo Rising celebrities, like Keanu Reeves, Uma Thurman, Sharon Stone, Virginie Ledoyen, Kurt Cobain, Woody Allen..all of these people, EVEN Sharon "flash-crotch" Stone looks like a bit of a fussy bachelorette.

I read in this book by Liz Greene once that your AC shows the things you have to go through this time around, and she spoke of an Aquarius guy, with a Scorpio Rising, who kept attracting jealous possessive individuals, and "intense" people, generally, although he hated them, but his gf spoke of how he was repressing his jealous side so he kept attracting it from outside circumstances.
So, if I got this right, it would mean that Virgo ACs put off people and romance, in general, because they need to learn to be "pure" and chast
To be perfectly honest, I would not like a hoard of admirers, because I would still have the same introverted, non-flirtatious personality, anyway, so it would be a waste...BUT I would like to have them just so that I can rub it in the faces of all those girls who constantly brag about how many admirerers they have.

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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

PS. I forgot to mention I am 22 years old.

And also..Bruce Willis is, according to astrotheme.com, a Virgo rising, as well, and he is quite sexy, I'd say. Maybe he has that coming from other parts of his chart, though.

Anyway, I'd be glad to hear of any sexy Virgo Risings you might think of.
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

Alizée, the french singer is Virgo Rising.

Most men describe her as the perfect woman.


Virgo is the most feminine sign, so this rising can be equal or even more esthetic than Libra rising or Sagittarius.


Dont forget that also the sign of the ruler of the ascendant and the house where it is placed will define the physical.

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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

according to astrotheme, Alizee has Venus conjunct her AC..all the women I know with Venus conjunct AC are men-magnets.

Even the men with Venus-AC conjunctions are generally seen as attractive, although, in a man's case, it gives a touch of femininity to the physical features-think Jude Law, or Paul Newman.

Anyway, there should be a separate place in the zodiac for those with a Venus-AC conjunction, because they are unfairly gorgeous. I know two women who have this, and they're the types that men can fall for at first sight, because they're so gorgeous.
Just think Angelina Jolie, Cameron Diaz, or Lauren Bacall, who all have this aspect..Lauren Bacall is also a Virgo Rising, I think.

But it's funny to note that even among the Venus-AC types, Virgo Risings will come across as the fussiest..like Lauren Bacall, who had this aura of arrogance about her.
Angelina and Cameron are Cancer Risings.
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Dont forget that also the sign of the ruler of the ascendant and the house where it is placed will define the physical.
ok..I have Mercury in Pisces, in the 6th, square a Moon-Mars-Jupiter stellium, conjunct North Node, sextile Uranus
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

Sun-Venus aspects will not make you physical attractive... But it will increase your charm and will make an aura of love and attraction (but not physical).

What can increase your beauty is:
Venus-Ruler of the ascendant or Venus-Ascendant specially conjunctions and trines. Even bad aspects can help, but sometimes can cause overweight.

Saturn may not increase you beauty but bad aspects will decrease it.
ruler of the ascendant or ascendant-Saturn or Uranus (good aspects): Will increase your bonny structure and heigh, and slimness. (bad aspects) Will cause you problems in skin, nails, and hair or you can be over skinny.

Weight.
Jupiter good aspects- Can make you athletic, slim, energetic, pretty hair, and a healthiness image.
Bad aspects can cause overweight. the same as the Moon.
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

REMEMBER THAT EACH PLANET HAS A GOOD SIDE AND A BAD SIDE.

So each sign has it beauty when it has a good aspect.

bad aspects will make the ugly side to appear.

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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

Paul McCartney has Virgo Rising and about half the women on the planet were in love with him at one time.
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

My friend is a Virgo rising (without Venus conjunct ascendant or any other planets in Virgo) and she is attractive, has a nice body, and men are attracted to her.

Any sign can be attractive
What does the rest of your chart look like?
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

To add: Marion Cotillard is a Virgo rising and she's pretty.
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

Virgo risings (in my experience) have a very understated beauty about them. Most look healthy and simple. And plenty of men are attracted to that.

Do you get out much? I know its a bit invasive to ask, but if you only interact with a certain set of men (say a church group, co-workers, only online, etc) then that's narrowing down the types of men you'd be interacting with often.

The highest majority of women (and men) can find a suitable partner if they make themselves seen by different types of people!

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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

Ixaee,

lol. good point. I guess I don't get out much..but I am also refering to all the years I was in school/high school, as well.
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

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To be perfectly honest, I would not like a hoard of admirers, because I would still have the same introverted, non-flirtatious personality, anyway, so it would be a waste...BUT I would like to have them just so that I can rub it in the faces of all those girls who constantly brag about how many admirerers they have.
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

ah, deci sa inteleg ca nu stiu sa ma prefac...
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

No. I am a virgo rising, and I've never (well....okay I DID go through an ugly duckling phase in my teens) wanted in the sex appeal department. I do think that a lot of virgo risings come across as self consious, so that's off-putting for many. It's not an innately sexy rising sign, but it IS innately charming, I would say. I would add that many virgo rising females have had to contend with many early blows to the self-esteem. We often undervalue ourselves, so even if we are sexy, we kind of destroy it in various ways (ill-fitting clothes, over-eating, chasing bad partners in a desperate sorta way). But, yeah, the charm is a sweet, somewhat innocent personality....most probably with a far more sexual nature than one would ever guess. And when we virgo risings choose to value ourselves and let our beauty shine, we really are bewitching
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

Hm...I don't have a virgo rising but I do have a capricorn,and I do think I have that librarian/nerd look as you describe it.Anyway,I don't attract many guys and for some weird reason never the ones I like...Of course I am not gonna be miserable about it...I mean I have had guys interested in me but not the ones I want.I also have Venus in the 1st and conjunct my Asc,so I don't know how that'll turn in the future.But then I have a bunch of other planets in the 1st too.
I think it's just that Virgo appears a bit as hard to approach person and like a good girl...I think it'll benefit you more when someone will be looking for something more serious to have with you.

I dunno if this helps,but a friend of mine who has a good amount of guys crushing on her is a Sagittarius sun,Cancer moon with Aquarius Rising.
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Hm...I don't have a virgo rising but I do have a capricorn,and I do think I have that librarian/nerd look as you describe it.Anyway,I don't attract many guys and for some weird reason never the ones I like...Of course I am not gonna be miserable about it...I mean I have had guys interested in me but not the ones I want.I also have Venus in the 1st and conjunct my Asc,so I don't know how that'll turn in the future.But then I have a bunch of other planets in the 1st too.
I think it's just that Virgo appears a bit as hard to approach person and like a good girl...I think it'll benefit you more when someone will be looking for something more serious to have with you.

I dunno if this helps,but a friend of mine who has a good amount of guys crushing on her is a Sagittarius sun,Cancer moon with Aquarius Rising.
Yes, it's true that Virgos are self-conscious, and serious..lols.

Having Cap on the 5th, and Satur in the 4th doesn't help, either...unless you like the cold and dry types of women..lol.
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I'm virgo rising and I know I like the simple look. I hardly ever wear makeup and I think I look weird if I put too much on (too much is concerler, light foundation mixed with lotion to keep skin hydrated, a bronzer to eliminate shiney-ness, lip gloss, mascara and eye liner, sometimes eyeshadow and blush.) I don't over do it and I like nuteral colours. I've always been told I look like a "sexy librarian/teacher" and I look older than I am and I've been called a "milf" as a freshman in highschool :s lmaoo! But I swear I don't look that old!

Anywayy.. I've never had a problem with my looks really... But I do have venus sextiling my moon and jupiter, and conjunct my IC, jupiter and moon are conjunct too in Libra and Venus in Sag. (Scorpio sun )

Oh and my saturn in aquarious is trine my moon! No other aspects with any of those planets

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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

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Or maybe totally unsexy?

So, if I got this right, it would mean that Virgo ACs put off people and romance, in general, because they need to learn to be "pure" and chast
To be perfectly honest, I would not like a hoard of admirers, because I would still have the same introverted, non-flirtatious personality, anyway, so it would be a waste...BUT I would like to have them just so that I can rub it in the faces of all those girls who constantly brag about how many admirerers they have.
Why are you friends with a bunch of utterly shallow girls?

Are you a university student? After a while, you should find a few brainiacs to hang out with.

I have Virgo rising. I got married at age 24, and have been married (2x) now for about 34 years, with two super adult children. These relationships are far more important to me than impressing a bunch of shallow women.

You mention having a bunch of planets in Pisces. Are they in the 7th house or in the 6th but conjunct the DC? This would raise some additional issues.

Do you want to post your chart?

And cheer up. After a while your ascendant will progress into Libra, if it hasn't done so already.
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I'm a Virgo Rising and ive never been in a relationship either. I am kinda young though...

Also, ive heard a lot of people describe Virgo Rising as younger looking, but I usually get mistaken for being older
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Re: Are Virgo Risings unattractive?

The only common denominator I have found so far for 'attractiveness' is a Venus conjunct the Ascendant, or at least very close to it. I'm not talking about 'drop dead gorgeous model beauty' (which is kinda boring anyways, IMO) but it gives the person a certain magnetic charm. My ex-husband (Cancer Rising), my sister (Cancer Rising) and my best friend (Virgo Rising) all have this aspect and are all very attractive. Strangely enough, none of them seem to be really aware of this, which makes it extra charming in my book.
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Why are you friends with a bunch of utterly shallow girls?

Are you a university student? After a while, you should find a few brainiacs to hang out with.

I have Virgo rising. I got married at age 24, and have been married (2x) now for about 34 years, with two super adult children. These relationships are far more important to me than impressing a bunch of shallow women.

You mention having a bunch of planets in Pisces. Are they in the 7th house or in the 6th but conjunct the DC? This would raise some additional issues.

Do you want to post your chart?

And cheer up. After a while your ascendant will progress into Libra, if it hasn't done so already.
here is my chart: http://www.tribe.net/template/pub,Po...3b6&altText=me

So, to answer your question, yes, I have Venus and Sun conjunct one another and the DC, Venus in the 6th, Sun in the 7th.

I just graduated from college, 2 months ago. I am 22. I haven't found any brainiacs to hang out with, unfortunately.

What happens if my AC progresses into Libra? I cannot see my progressed AC sign on astro.com, how do I figure it out?
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The only common denominator I have found so far for 'attractiveness' is a Venus conjunct the Ascendant, or at least very close to it. I'm not talking about 'drop dead gorgeous model beauty' (which is kinda boring anyways, IMO) but it gives the person a certain magnetic charm. My ex-husband (Cancer Rising), my sister (Cancer Rising) and my best friend (Virgo Rising) all have this aspect and are all very attractive. Strangely enough, none of them seem to be really aware of this, which makes it extra charming in my book.
well, Venus on the AC gives a certain Venus-type charm, yes, but I think there are people who don't find that extrordinarily appealing, like me..
I know a few Venus ACs who seem very shallow and manipulative to me, although they do seem to be able to fool most people quite easily.
Men with Venus Asc are very looks-conscious and vain, turn offs for me. Just think Jude Law.

I usually find people with Pluto-Asc hard aspects to be very attractive - introverted and intense.

Or Neptune Ascendants - the women are very feminine and delicate-looking, fragile and dreamy. The men seem artistic and sensitive. Both genders have very soulful eyes.

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well, Venus on the AC gives a certain Venus-type charm, yes, but I think there are people who don't find that extrordinarily appealing, like me..
I know a few Venus ACs who seem very shallow and manipulative to me, although they do seem to be able to fool most people quite easily.
Men with Venus Asc are very looks-conscious and vain, turn offs for me. Just think Jude Law.

I usually find people with Pluto-Asc hard aspects to be very attractive - introverted and intense.

Or Neptune Ascendants - the women are very feminine and delicate-looking, fragile and dreamy. The men seem artistic and sensitive. Both genders have very soulful eyes.

I have Venus conjunct Ascendant...But then I have so many planets aspecting my Asc that I don't know which one is projected the most.
I also have many Moon aspects and Moon sextile Asc(Moon Scorpio/Asc Capricorn) and I think that it makes me popular among females,more than males.I just get on so well with girls...like instantly and I am not really the type who is overly feminine and stuff.Of course the fact that I was raised in an all female family also plays an important role,but then on the other hand,my sister has Mars in the first and she gets along better with guys,way better than with girls.While I am the opposite of hers.I am more shy among guys and more affectionate when it comes to girls.I just feel more comfortable around them.
I am not really very good-looking and I dunno if I am charming.But I have noticed the Moon's influence a lot.If it helps my DC is also in Cancer so...If I am not wrong the 7th house,is the house of relationships.So that could be too.
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