BaoSanniang
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I am a Cancer born on July 3rd, 1996, in Chongqing, China. Time of birth is 18:10. I'm far from an experienced reader of birth charts but I certainly know more than the average person who probably doesn't go beyond knowing their sun sign and reading their daily horoscope (which I know is total bull).
According to what I've read, in a male's chart marriage and the potential spouse are determined mainly by the Moon and Venus, because they represent the two most feminine energies in the chart.
My moon is in the 2nd house at 13.52 degrees Aquarius
My Venus is in the 6th house at 11.48 degrees Gemini
My ascendant is Sagittarius rising (though I don't look give off a Sagittarius energy, nor do I look like a typical Sagittarius) at approximately 18.01 degrees which means my descendant or 7th house will be at 18.01 degrees Gemini.
My Juno is at 12.33 degrees Aries in the 4th house, and I have my Saturn at 7.12 degrees Aries also in the 4th house.
Moon Aspects:
Moon Sextile Ascendant
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Sextile Juno
Venus Aspects:
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Opposition Ascendant
Venus Sextile Juno
I am not sure if my Venus and Saturn are close enough to form a Sextile aspect, they're a bit over 4 degrees apart. According to some sites like 0800 Horoscope (which is where I've pulled these numbers from), they're close enough to form a Sextile. However, other sites like Astrodienst believe my Venus and Saturn aren't close enough to sextile each other.
Regarding the asteroid Juno, there are some Juno aspects that concern me and make me worried about finding happiness in marriage:
Sun (11.45 degrees Cancer, 7th house) SQUARE Juno (12.33 degrees Aries, 4th house)
Saturn (7.12 degrees Aries, 4th house) CONJUNCT Juno (12.33 degrees Aries, 4th house)
Jupiter (12.54 degrees Capricorn, 1st house) SQUARE Juno (12.33 degrees Aries, 4th house)-very tight square
My Juno might Trine my ascendant because they're less than 6 degrees apart, so that's something positive I guess.
My Moon trines my descendant, my venus and mars are both conjunct my descendant, and my North Node in Libra at 12.43 degrees (in the Midheaven) is trine my descendant too I believe.
To tally up the aspects I believe (with my current understanding) would influence my marriage and the kind of person I'd end up marrying:
Moon Sextile Ascendant
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Sextile Juno
Moon Trine Descendant
Moon Trine ASC NODE
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Sextile Saturn (possibly)
Venus Opposition Ascendant
Venus Sextile Juno
Venus Trine ASC NODE
Venus Conjunct Descendant
Mars Conjunct Descendant
Sun Square Juno
Saturn Conjunct Juno
Jupiter Square Juno
Juno Trine Ascendant (possibly)
Juno Sextile Descendant (possibly)
Taking all of this information into account, what are some predictions that can be made for how my married life will turn out, at what age and in what way could I meet my wife, and what kind of person could she be?
It's also worth mentioning that despite my Venus in Gemini, which from the descriptions I've read is made out to be a position that suggests unfaithfulness, multiple marriages, and the constant need for excitement and stimulation, the ruler of my 7th house sign (Mercury) is at 2.18 degrees, conjunct my sun at 11.45 degrees Cancer but not a very tight conjunction. Both my sun and mercury are in the 7th house. Putting astrology aside, the descriptions I've read of Venus in Gemini don't seem to fit me all that well. I certainly don't want, and don't enjoy the idea of being unfaithful and having multiple marriages. I still hold a relatively traditional Eastern view that marriage is about loving one person all your life, to grow old together, to let love (爱情）mature into a kind of deep companionship based more on friendship (亲情）. The idea of divorce scares me, because I come from a broken home. I want to find someone I can spend the rest of my life with and never get divorced. I can be very childish and playful at times, and I certainly appreciate someone whom I can connect with not only emotionally but also intellectually, but I'm not exactly someone who needs to be stimulated ALL the time because I'd rather not talk and be quiet for a while.
Perhaps there are some people in North America who are relatively inexperienced with relationships and sex at my age (because IMO North America, by which I mean Canada, the US, and Mexico seems to be a bit more conservative than much of Western Europe), and Asians on average mature a bit later in these areas due to culture (though this is changing with the post-1993 generation, even in China / Asia itself), but some Europeans I've talked to seemed weirded-out by how old-fashioned I am. To them, being so pure and innocent at the ripe old age of 22 is slightly unusual to say the least (for both guys and girls), perhaps even odd. My older male friend, who's a Brit, told me he'd suggest to his son to get 4-5 girlfriends before marrying. I was quite taken aback because in my view, someone who's had multiple boyfriends / girlfriends loses the capacity to love wholly and purely, and I'd be suspicious of a girl like that. If my son or daughter told me the person they're dating is very "experienced", part of me would always remain wary. However, my friend holds no such belief and thinks my perspective is not so good.
The last time I was involved with girls was 3-4 years ago. Looking back, I was in a state of depression and had too many insecurities to sustain a relationship. There was also a bit of overlap between the two relationships that to this day, I still beat myself over. The "main' girl I was seeing was 6 years older than me, she was a Capricorn / Aquarius cusp (January 20th, 1990) with a Scorpio Moon, while the other girl was a year younger than me (November 5th, 1997, Scorpio Sun and Capricorn Moon), and one I had known for a really long time. Since the first girl was the one I actually considered my girlfriend at the time, I basically ghosted on the second girl. Without going into further details, it was devastating for me and to this day I still haven't forgotten things. I was too emotionally and psychologically unstable at the time, plus I was a bit of a flirt because being an introvert I never came across any opportunities to understand girls when I was in school. Now I still bear those scars from my past, but my need for love, companionship and security has grown even stronger. Ideally I want to marry when I am 25-26, and deep down I need someone who can look after me and be my anchor. I've never been career / goal-oriented or ambitious, I'm perfectly happy being a family / house-oriented person. I'm not a romantic person, I prefer showing that I love and care through little things in life. What I want more than anything else is a life that's simple and peaceful, without any majors ups and downs, to grow old with my wife and hopefully have a kid or two.
It still feels painful as I type these words, and I still feel shame. Both of my exes were the headstrong type that didn't have the best tempers, and were more ambitious than me in a worldly sense. Perhaps I tend to attract this kind of woman, and though I don't make it obvious, I admire / know I probably need a woman who can complement me in these ways yet genuinely loves and accepts me for who I am. If you believe this could be what the stars are telling me, please give me evidence from my birth chart. If you disagree, please let me know why.
According to what I've read, in a male's chart marriage and the potential spouse are determined mainly by the Moon and Venus, because they represent the two most feminine energies in the chart.
My moon is in the 2nd house at 13.52 degrees Aquarius
My Venus is in the 6th house at 11.48 degrees Gemini
My ascendant is Sagittarius rising (though I don't look give off a Sagittarius energy, nor do I look like a typical Sagittarius) at approximately 18.01 degrees which means my descendant or 7th house will be at 18.01 degrees Gemini.
My Juno is at 12.33 degrees Aries in the 4th house, and I have my Saturn at 7.12 degrees Aries also in the 4th house.
Moon Aspects:
Moon Sextile Ascendant
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Sextile Juno
Venus Aspects:
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Opposition Ascendant
Venus Sextile Juno
I am not sure if my Venus and Saturn are close enough to form a Sextile aspect, they're a bit over 4 degrees apart. According to some sites like 0800 Horoscope (which is where I've pulled these numbers from), they're close enough to form a Sextile. However, other sites like Astrodienst believe my Venus and Saturn aren't close enough to sextile each other.
Regarding the asteroid Juno, there are some Juno aspects that concern me and make me worried about finding happiness in marriage:
Sun (11.45 degrees Cancer, 7th house) SQUARE Juno (12.33 degrees Aries, 4th house)
Saturn (7.12 degrees Aries, 4th house) CONJUNCT Juno (12.33 degrees Aries, 4th house)
Jupiter (12.54 degrees Capricorn, 1st house) SQUARE Juno (12.33 degrees Aries, 4th house)-very tight square
My Juno might Trine my ascendant because they're less than 6 degrees apart, so that's something positive I guess.
My Moon trines my descendant, my venus and mars are both conjunct my descendant, and my North Node in Libra at 12.43 degrees (in the Midheaven) is trine my descendant too I believe.
To tally up the aspects I believe (with my current understanding) would influence my marriage and the kind of person I'd end up marrying:
Moon Sextile Ascendant
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Sextile Juno
Moon Trine Descendant
Moon Trine ASC NODE
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Sextile Saturn (possibly)
Venus Opposition Ascendant
Venus Sextile Juno
Venus Trine ASC NODE
Venus Conjunct Descendant
Mars Conjunct Descendant
Sun Square Juno
Saturn Conjunct Juno
Jupiter Square Juno
Juno Trine Ascendant (possibly)
Juno Sextile Descendant (possibly)
Taking all of this information into account, what are some predictions that can be made for how my married life will turn out, at what age and in what way could I meet my wife, and what kind of person could she be?
It's also worth mentioning that despite my Venus in Gemini, which from the descriptions I've read is made out to be a position that suggests unfaithfulness, multiple marriages, and the constant need for excitement and stimulation, the ruler of my 7th house sign (Mercury) is at 2.18 degrees, conjunct my sun at 11.45 degrees Cancer but not a very tight conjunction. Both my sun and mercury are in the 7th house. Putting astrology aside, the descriptions I've read of Venus in Gemini don't seem to fit me all that well. I certainly don't want, and don't enjoy the idea of being unfaithful and having multiple marriages. I still hold a relatively traditional Eastern view that marriage is about loving one person all your life, to grow old together, to let love (爱情）mature into a kind of deep companionship based more on friendship (亲情）. The idea of divorce scares me, because I come from a broken home. I want to find someone I can spend the rest of my life with and never get divorced. I can be very childish and playful at times, and I certainly appreciate someone whom I can connect with not only emotionally but also intellectually, but I'm not exactly someone who needs to be stimulated ALL the time because I'd rather not talk and be quiet for a while.
Perhaps there are some people in North America who are relatively inexperienced with relationships and sex at my age (because IMO North America, by which I mean Canada, the US, and Mexico seems to be a bit more conservative than much of Western Europe), and Asians on average mature a bit later in these areas due to culture (though this is changing with the post-1993 generation, even in China / Asia itself), but some Europeans I've talked to seemed weirded-out by how old-fashioned I am. To them, being so pure and innocent at the ripe old age of 22 is slightly unusual to say the least (for both guys and girls), perhaps even odd. My older male friend, who's a Brit, told me he'd suggest to his son to get 4-5 girlfriends before marrying. I was quite taken aback because in my view, someone who's had multiple boyfriends / girlfriends loses the capacity to love wholly and purely, and I'd be suspicious of a girl like that. If my son or daughter told me the person they're dating is very "experienced", part of me would always remain wary. However, my friend holds no such belief and thinks my perspective is not so good.
The last time I was involved with girls was 3-4 years ago. Looking back, I was in a state of depression and had too many insecurities to sustain a relationship. There was also a bit of overlap between the two relationships that to this day, I still beat myself over. The "main' girl I was seeing was 6 years older than me, she was a Capricorn / Aquarius cusp (January 20th, 1990) with a Scorpio Moon, while the other girl was a year younger than me (November 5th, 1997, Scorpio Sun and Capricorn Moon), and one I had known for a really long time. Since the first girl was the one I actually considered my girlfriend at the time, I basically ghosted on the second girl. Without going into further details, it was devastating for me and to this day I still haven't forgotten things. I was too emotionally and psychologically unstable at the time, plus I was a bit of a flirt because being an introvert I never came across any opportunities to understand girls when I was in school. Now I still bear those scars from my past, but my need for love, companionship and security has grown even stronger. Ideally I want to marry when I am 25-26, and deep down I need someone who can look after me and be my anchor. I've never been career / goal-oriented or ambitious, I'm perfectly happy being a family / house-oriented person. I'm not a romantic person, I prefer showing that I love and care through little things in life. What I want more than anything else is a life that's simple and peaceful, without any majors ups and downs, to grow old with my wife and hopefully have a kid or two.
It still feels painful as I type these words, and I still feel shame. Both of my exes were the headstrong type that didn't have the best tempers, and were more ambitious than me in a worldly sense. Perhaps I tend to attract this kind of woman, and though I don't make it obvious, I admire / know I probably need a woman who can complement me in these ways yet genuinely loves and accepts me for who I am. If you believe this could be what the stars are telling me, please give me evidence from my birth chart. If you disagree, please let me know why.
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