Did he lose interest in me?

kai

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So it's been a week since I heard from the man I have been liking and he has been liking me too according to what he says to his best friend. I am not sure what happened why he invited me to go along with him to Vegas then canceled saying that the person he was supposed to see for work, was going to be out of town himself and told me that he goes there often and we will go another time. I am not doubting his version of cancellation since the whole trip was for work, but what I find strange is why he hasn't contacted me for a week now since that trip cancellation to say hi at least. Like I had mentioned before...he told his friend the first time he saw me that he liked me a lot, then said the same after our 1st official double-date, he wanted to have sex with me, he kept hugging me during our date at a casino, he kept showering me with compliments, but made it known that he is looking for casual thing, but I never protested that lol. I am ready to move on as a week is a lot not to bother to at least call to say hello and I certainly have not contacted him nor do I plan to. Of course, I'd love to see him again, but this behavior is dwindling my own interest in him gradually and I have decided not to pick up IF he contacts me now because that's just bad behavior and I deserve some attention from a man who wants to sleep with me.

I feel very attracted to this older man that's why Im stressed because i don't often feel attracted to men and when I do and it goes nowhere I get annoyed like now. So i am wondering if his silence doesn't necessary mean that he no longer finds me attractive or doesn't like me all of the sudden, but rather more has to do with himself like having someone on the side that he needs to juggle, being stressed, or liking me but perhaps he feels im young for him, doesnt want me to get hurt, etc? That's why I just want to see if he has simply lost interest in me or his silence has something to do with himself? I want some closure today honestly to move on. Im Venus in his 7th so that says it all while he is Mars in Cappy in my 3rd communication so that shows where i see him (wanting him to contact me)...there's no aspect between Venus & Mars. Moon is in my 8th so not in a good house but in taurus. There's mercury in 7th so another woman or it represents his turned 3rd house of communication instead? which is conjuncting me in his house? Him (mars) being in Cappy..it's the sign of my exhalation so does he exalt me still? lol
 

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kai

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meh... I don't like merc on his desc.

I feel like he is talking to someone too hence his ghosting and lack of communication because he showed lots of interest in me and complimented to his friend the day after and not the first time, so bearing that in mind and also the invitation to Vegas, I feel like he is juggling someone else otherwise no man just lets go of an opportunity to have sex with a woman he showed interest too and enjoyed her company. I agree that the mercury on his desc most likely is someone else.
 

kai

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Both his significators mars/sun have just changed signs, so I'd say yes he has changed his mind about you.

yeah looks like it lol...just one question that I was wondering about...it's the reception to me from him I am wondering about....since I am Venus and he, as mars, is in Cappy, my sign of exhaltion, does that mean that since he is in my exhaltion sign that he exalts me? it's strictly reception question from him to me...
 
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