I certainly will try to put it into words if you tell me what I come off as 😉 I'm truly curious, but I will explain to you when I'm more rested
I'm a libra ascendent, moon in taurus, and sun in cap conjunct neptune(neptune virtually aspects every other planet in my chart)
I've realized this yesterday and I think this legetimatizes astrology in my eyes a little bit. My 3rd house is sag, and my 11th house is leo. Guess who I attract in friendships? My 7th house is aries. And my ex, I can bet money on is an aries(it was that or taurus or gemini in regards to his time)
So let me give my 2 cents. Libra is afraid of aries' selfish, and ultra sexual behaviour and feels as though he'll consume her and essentially do anything he wants without caring for her or respecting her feelings. Libra also doesn't like how most people doesn't like aries and how he isn't aware of or care for social norms. (Remember how in greek mythology not everyone liked mars at all).
Aries hates how libra is too friendly with everyone and can accommodate anyone and everyone; and sometimes feels or confuses that with easiness; scorpio would confuse that with lack of depth and get super jealous. Libra just wants to be liked by everyone and wants peace. Aries, naturally being a competetive sign is in a way jealous of libra because libra represents everything he never got from life, the world, and society. She's beautiful, she's cordial and everyone likes this sweetness. But unlike libra, everyone misunderstands or is intimidated by the aries. But libra has one inherent ability that aries never will especially if libra has some water elements in her chart.
However, libra is the only one that can both simultaneously please him in bed among other things(as she is a natural people pleaser), and put up with him.
But I feel like libra especially with some water in her chart, naturally can sense aries' selfish and vampiric nature and feels like her beauty and the fact that he has to put in the least amount of effort to please the beauty is the reason he's around.
Other than that, I've had cancers in my life. I have a stellium in capricorn. Again, I have lilith in cancer. Their emotions are so unnecessary, without the depth of scorpio I find; too dramatic; not always controlled, and reckless. But I also have a stellium in the fourth house so I'm not really a stranger to that energy.
My moon is in taurus. I ******* love scorpios. one of the most favourite person from my dad's side of the family (my cousin) has his sun in scorpio and it's exactly opposite to mine.
He's literally a guy version of me, also very protective of me. God bless his soul.