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friends and best friends synastry, post yours!

post your synastry with your friend/s and describe your relationship

are there also romantic feelings between you and your friend?

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Well...

This is a synastry chart with my workmate, we started to talk about whatever even our secrets at the really early stage of friendship. We both have very intense temper as you can see we both have Virgo Ascendant & Virgo/Mars in the first house if the birth time is correct.

We somehow look a like although he is male and I am female. But because of my impulsive character due to Mars is superlative in my chart which rules all my planets in the Scorpio Stellium....we had many big fights!!!! But somehow, we still look after each other at work. He is older than me, but I treat him like a little bother and he looks up to me. I am very protective of him. Very rare relationship!!

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Hello - here are synastry and composites for two people in my life.

The first is my best friend - we have been friends since grammar school days (over 15 years).

The second is with a man I've been dating for a month and so far it is great and he makes me feel good emotionally. His time is not EXACT, that is the only issue.. but his mother said it was between 3-4pm so I chose 3:30 and it didn't change the houses or his ASC.

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Well...

This is a synastry chart with my workmate, we started to talk about whatever even our secrets at the really early stage of friendship. We both have very intense temper as you can see we both have Virgo Ascendant & Virgo/Mars in the first house if the birth time is correct.

We somehow look a like although he is male and I am female. But because of my impulsive character due to Mars is superlative in my chart which rules all my planets in the Scorpio Stellium....we had many big fights!!!! But somehow, we still look after each other at work. He is older than me, but I treat him like a little bother and he looks up to me. I am very protective of him. Very rare relationship!!
you have mars in virgo , nervous sexuality, your performance in bed is similar to your work. you are a perfectionist,nervous,worried. you find it hard to just sit idle.

mercury/uranus conjunct and opposition , he finds your statements shocking but your ideas inspire him,a lot of talking,challenging your ideas.

mars/uranus sextile and square, a lot of sexual energy,you pursue your desires together. you both want what you want now. your sexuality can go from intense to no sexual energy.

mars/saturn conjunct, you feel unable to express what you really want because you both focus attention on hard work rather than have fun.

venus/venus square , sexual tension , you can learn about love from each other.
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Hello - here are synastry and composites for two people in my life.

The first is my best friend - we have been friends since grammar school days (over 15 years).

The second is with a man I've been dating for a month and so far it is great and he makes me feel good emotionally. His time is not EXACT, that is the only issue.. but his mother said it was between 3-4pm so I chose 3:30 and it didn't change the houses or his ASC.

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your moon trine mercury and venus
her moon and venus conjunct mercury
your moon opposition uranus
her moon and venus square jupiter
your saturn conjunct mars and saturn
north node conjunct north node
chiron conjunct chiron
your uranus sextile mars and venus
your neptune sextile pluto and her neptune sextile pluto
your sun sextile jupiter
your venus square pluto
her mercury square saturn and mars

a lot of positive aspects , benefic friendship.
read my last post about mars/uranus and mars/saturn.

mercury square saturn and mars, communication problems and dispute.

is there attraction between you and your friend?


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you have mars in virgo , nervous sexuality, your performance in bed is similar to your work. you are a perfectionist,nervous,worried. you find it hard to just sit idle.

mercury/uranus conjunct and opposition , he finds your statements shocking but your ideas inspire him,a lot of talking,challenging your ideas.

mars/uranus sextile and square, a lot of sexual energy,you pursue your desires together. you both want what you want now. your sexuality can go from intense to no sexual energy.

mars/saturn conjunct, you feel unable to express what you really want because you both focus attention on hard work rather than have fun.

venus/venus square , sexual tension , you can learn about love from each other.
Oh dear....you know what he is just a friend when you talk about sexual stuffs....sorry I can't help but laugh!!! I really like him. But partly because of my own unfortunate, he will never love me because he is gay. At most we can have sibling love.

On the other hand I really don't find him sexy. Is platonic friendship. But he does like to look at me when I dressed up on the other hand, he also looked very handsome to me. I think that is because he has Virgo Mars which is the type of man that I am attracted to. You know what I mean?....maybe because I knew he is gay from the first day I met him!! hahaha

I do give him lot of shocking statements and inspire him a lot at time. That is why I am more like his older sister. There are lot of mental simulations between us which help us both becoming a better version of ourselves.

We both work well together at work and want to make sure getting the work done well.
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your moon trine mercury and venus
her moon and venus conjunct mercury
your moon opposition uranus
her moon and venus square jupiter
your saturn conjunct mars and saturn
north node conjunct north node
chiron conjunct chiron
your uranus sextile mars and venus
your neptune sextile pluto and her neptune sextile pluto
your sun sextile jupiter
your venus square pluto
her mercury square saturn and mars

a lot of positive aspects , benefic friendship.
read my last post about mars/uranus and mars/saturn.

mercury square saturn and mars, communication problems and dispute.

is there attraction between you and your friend?


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haha DEFINITELY communication issues. She is VERY strong headed.. in high school people used to laugh at us because we would argue at lunch about the most ridiculous things. I've come to terms with the fact that she is very opinionated and usually just let her "win" or agree to disagree.. I've learned to pick and choose my battles with her. No, no physical attraction between us (not into ladies), but she is someone that I value very much in my life and look to for honest advice. On the outside we are very different and people who know us both separately are shocked to find out that we are best friends (even teachers in school). She is like a sister to me and I admire a lot of things about her.
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you both have mars/uranus aspect and mars/saturn conjunct but no sexual energy. maybe because you feel unable to express what you really want because you both focus attention on hard work rather than have fun(mars/saturn conjunct)?

poyi , how long have you been friends?

angelik , how does venus/pluto square in synastry and composite influence your friendship?
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you both have mars/uranus aspect and mars/saturn conjunct but no sexual energy. maybe because you feel unable to express what you really want because you both focus attention on hard work rather than have fun(mars/saturn conjunct)?

poyi , how long have you been friends?

angelik , how does venus/pluto square in synastry and composite influence your friendship?
There are definitely power struggles within our friendship. She is certainly the Pluto person in our relationship and I am Venus - she is much stronger than I am. I don't resent her though at all.. I've learned to accept her for who she is and just realize that she likes to reign. She is someone that pushes me outside of my comfort zone and because of her I've had some amazing life experiences (like backpacking throughout Europe after college).
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you both have mars/uranus aspect and mars/saturn conjunct but no sexual energy. maybe because you feel unable to express what you really want because you both focus attention on hard work rather than have fun(mars/saturn conjunct)?

poyi , how long have you been friends?

angelik , how does venus/pluto square in synastry and composite influence your friendship?

We only been friends for very short period. He came to my workplace from early December last year, then we went out in mid-January to have dinner on the first day, we already told each other a lot of personal stuffs and secret. To me is like lightening kind of connection. As if I have found a soulmate, but I knew he is gay (I have good gut feeling) then I confirmed that with him after dinner through text messages.

Most of the time, we are actually fighting with each other hahaha. I really have doubt this friendship will last. At the moment he is back to Korea for holiday then will move somewhere else for rotation. I am not that optimistic about this relationship will last but a very interesting one.
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you both have mars/uranus aspect and mars/saturn conjunct but no sexual energy. maybe because you feel unable to express what you really want because you both focus attention on hard work rather than have fun(mars/saturn conjunct)?

what do you think about these aspects and the unexpressed sexual energy, poyi and anjelik?

poyi, you have venus/venus square, you have differences and sexual tension. no sexual tension??
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you both have mars/uranus aspect and mars/saturn conjunct but no sexual energy. maybe because you feel unable to express what you really want because you both focus attention on hard work rather than have fun(mars/saturn conjunct)?

what do you think about these aspects and the unexpressed sexual energy, poyi and anjelik?

poyi, you have venus/venus square, you have differences and sexual tension. no sexual tension??
Well and truly he is gay, a "Virgin" regarding to relationship with woman!! We only know each other a very short period of time. But it is impossible to turn a gay to straight. If it happens it would surely be miracle....

But the funny thing is during conversation, when I was petting his arm when we had playful conversation that made him very very uncomfortable...I was only playing with him I have seen many other female colleagues ACTUALLY touch him many many times but he doesn't seen to mind!!! That makes me feel really strange...

One day, after work because it was raining and he was about to drop me home. We shared an small umbrella together...he actually ran away.........I was like what the hell are you doing????
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I read some other members in the other threads mentioned Venus/Venus square means different in taste!!

In our case is he preferred male!!! Is me being unfortunate!!! lol

His natal chart shows a lot of conflicts in regarding to his inner self and he is extremely sensitive/touchy. In long run, I would also find too challenging to be with him. But so far, I still have the feeling that for some reasons, I should look after him. To me, I can see that his vulnerable nature which makes me want to mother him if you know what I mean hahaha

For obvious reason, with Mars in Virgo, I can't help that he is actually the type of guy that I am attracted to while myself my Mars is the superlative planet in my natal chart. The impact is HUGE!!! that might be why I felt the lightening there.
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She is my best friend. We get along very well. She tells me her stuff I tell her mine.

We met when we were about 10 or 11. At first, we didn't talk to each other because she thought I didn't like her and vice versa. I think it was when we were 17 or 18, we really started talking (my mom owns a restaurant and her father helped her run it.) about our hatred towards the restaurant. It just blossomed from there. I moved to Texas for about a year, but still kept in contact. When I moved back, it was like I never left. haha

She has helped me through a lot. And I have been there for her through a lot too.
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Well and truly he is gay, a "Virgin" regarding to relationship with woman!! We only know each other a very short period of time. But it is impossible to turn a gay to straight. If it happens it would surely be miracle....

But the funny thing is during conversation, when I was petting his arm when we had playful conversation that made him very very uncomfortable...I was only playing with him I have seen many other female colleagues ACTUALLY touch him many many times but he doesn't seen to mind!!! That makes me feel really strange...

One day, after work because it was raining and he was about to drop me home. We shared an small umbrella together...he actually ran away.........I was like what the hell are you doing????
there is unexpress sexual energy and sexual tension..

akp124 , is there dispute between you?
can you post your composite?
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There is no dispute between us, but I did get the feeling that she was hiding something from me. My ex is trying to get her to go out with him. But, so far, she has been very truthful about what he tells her and what she tells him. I guess, whatever is in the chart is because of my habit of not trusting people.
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There is no dispute between us, but I did get the feeling that she was hiding something from me. My ex is trying to get her to go out with him. But, so far, she has been very truthful about what he tells her and what she tells him. I guess, whatever is in the chart is because of my habit of not trusting people.
a lot of positive aspects, but i do see dispute between you,even over petty matters, you anger and irritate each other but towards others you are protective of your friendship
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a lot of positive aspects, but i do see dispute between you,even over petty matters, you anger and irritate each other but towards others you are protective of your friendship
We never really come out and argue about what we're fighting about. To be honest, I don't really remember the last time we argued or were mad at each other. I think she might be mad at the fact that I like her brother. haha Although I think I only mentioned it twice.
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We never really come out and argue about what we're fighting about. To be honest, I don't really remember the last time we argued or were mad at each other. I think she might be mad at the fact that I like her brother. haha Although I think I only mentioned it twice.
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hello my attraction to my friend is more..hes a player bt we have had this attraction ..i have never felt like this for any other person
will his attraction become strong towards me???
will he and i eventually be happy with each other?????
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hello my attraction to my friend is more..hes a player bt we have had this attraction ..i have never felt like this for any other person
will his attraction become strong towards me???
will he and i eventually be happy with each other?????
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hello the sysnastry chart and composite chart is as follows
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his attraction will become strong towards you, you have mars opposition mars and mars square saturn though. you both want to lead but you should join forces and take turns. disappointing sex can anger saturn. criticism of your sexual technique. you will both feel inhibited.
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Hey.

This synastry is of my best friend (outside) and me. Been buddies since elementary school, we had some disputes back then but nothing serious. We play old video games and help each other class assignments, homework, etc. We don't really meddle into each other's personal lives unless it's too difficult to cop with alone. I wouldn't like it any other way.

And no, there are no romantic feelings. We are both (straight) males.
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I also wanted to post this synastry chart with a great female friend i met in a place i used to work at. We haven't goy to know each other too deeply, but she is someone great to talk with.

She is beautiful, not in a sexual way. She is just very pleasing to look at. I love the clothes she wears and her hairstyle is fabulous.

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Just remembered i don't know her hour of birth. Gotta ask her when i get to talk with her again.

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