Would this relationship be too volatile to pursue? Or should I let it go?
I'll spare you all the long narrative of how this situation came to be, but basically:
- There's this guy (22, bi) whom I have fallen for hard (I am a guy - 29, gay). It's weird because 1) We only met 2 months ago, 2) I historically am very hard to woo / am very resistant to falling (partly due to past traumas), and 3) Never thought I'd fall so hard for a guy so much younger. (I usually skew older.)
- We established a great connection (on accident and out of nowhere) but then I discover he's moving away. He's just recently moved, but will be back here regularly (he's from here and whole family is here).
- I don't readily connect to most guys these days and am usually very clear-sighted about this kind of thing. But we developed a very strong connection over a short time and even though he's moved away, we're still on great terms and I know I'll be seeing him again.
- Just wondering if there's something in our synastry that might give me enough pause to reconsider whether this would be worth pursuing in the long run or if I should shift my attentions elsewhere.
- It kind of frightens me how easily and quickly I fell for him, and how strong the energy is between us, and if there's something there that ought to deter me from pursuing this I'd like to know.
A couple aspects in our synastry I can see that I'm interested in are:
- My Venus (Aquarius) opposite his Venus (Leo). I've read conflicting reports that Venus opp. Venus can be good or horrible.
- My Mars and his Pluto are conjunct both in Scorpio. Seems like this could be a source of some of that energy between us, maybe?
- His Lilith is almost exactly conjunct my Chiron in Gemini on the 6th house cusp
- Our Chirons square each other
- His Chiron is also conjunct my South Node
- My Lilith is conjunct both his Sun and his Venus
Our synastry chart is attached. I'm inside circle (blue) he's outer (red).
I'll spare you all the long narrative of how this situation came to be, but basically:
- There's this guy (22, bi) whom I have fallen for hard (I am a guy - 29, gay). It's weird because 1) We only met 2 months ago, 2) I historically am very hard to woo / am very resistant to falling (partly due to past traumas), and 3) Never thought I'd fall so hard for a guy so much younger. (I usually skew older.)
- We established a great connection (on accident and out of nowhere) but then I discover he's moving away. He's just recently moved, but will be back here regularly (he's from here and whole family is here).
- I don't readily connect to most guys these days and am usually very clear-sighted about this kind of thing. But we developed a very strong connection over a short time and even though he's moved away, we're still on great terms and I know I'll be seeing him again.
- Just wondering if there's something in our synastry that might give me enough pause to reconsider whether this would be worth pursuing in the long run or if I should shift my attentions elsewhere.
- It kind of frightens me how easily and quickly I fell for him, and how strong the energy is between us, and if there's something there that ought to deter me from pursuing this I'd like to know.
A couple aspects in our synastry I can see that I'm interested in are:
- My Venus (Aquarius) opposite his Venus (Leo). I've read conflicting reports that Venus opp. Venus can be good or horrible.
- My Mars and his Pluto are conjunct both in Scorpio. Seems like this could be a source of some of that energy between us, maybe?
- His Lilith is almost exactly conjunct my Chiron in Gemini on the 6th house cusp
- Our Chirons square each other
- His Chiron is also conjunct my South Node
- My Lilith is conjunct both his Sun and his Venus
Our synastry chart is attached. I'm inside circle (blue) he's outer (red).
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