Betweenity
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I decided to look at a composite chart between me and a good friend on mine, mostly out of curiosity than anything else, and was greatly surprised to discover a Yod (ASC to Sun conjunct Chiron&Mercury sextile Mars). I have a Yod in my natal chart (though different planets are involved), and therefore am aware of an uncontrollable effect it might have.
Plus, we've got a stellium in the sign of Libra (Mercury, Chiron, Sun, and Moon are involved) partially occupying our composite 7th and 8th houses, as well as a multiple planet square (now, I've never encountered this in a composite before, so I have no clue how badly it affects our relationship, but I guess it affects it nonetheless, stressing certain aspects) with Mercury square Neptune, Moon square Neptune, Moon square Uranus, and Sun square Neptune.
Overall, Neptune's energy is very pronounced in our composite, as well as Chiron's influence (conjunct Sun and Mercury), both of which I never find overly pleasant in a composite, but then again, I've never seen this in a composite with a FRIEND (despite us having some pleasant aspects, such as Moon conjunct Sun and Sun conjunct Mercury).
These discoveries pushed me to draw up our synastry chart, which revealed a whole lot of Pluto (aspects such as Pluto conjunct Moon, Pluto trine Mars, Mars square Pluto, Pluto sextile Uranus), as well as Sun conjunct Eros, Mars square Moon (!), Neptune trine Sun, and Sun square Venus.
...I mean, with everything being so heavily loaded with all of these energies, I don't understand how we manage to still stay just friends. We're both in relationships, we have no power struggles occurring between us (which is surprising considering the number of squares).
So I guess my question is: do I overestimate "the Finger of Fate"'s significance here? Or, everything considered, is it inevitable that at some point our friendship will turn into something else?
Please, help me figure this out, my head already hurts just thinking about it
Plus, we've got a stellium in the sign of Libra (Mercury, Chiron, Sun, and Moon are involved) partially occupying our composite 7th and 8th houses, as well as a multiple planet square (now, I've never encountered this in a composite before, so I have no clue how badly it affects our relationship, but I guess it affects it nonetheless, stressing certain aspects) with Mercury square Neptune, Moon square Neptune, Moon square Uranus, and Sun square Neptune.
Overall, Neptune's energy is very pronounced in our composite, as well as Chiron's influence (conjunct Sun and Mercury), both of which I never find overly pleasant in a composite, but then again, I've never seen this in a composite with a FRIEND (despite us having some pleasant aspects, such as Moon conjunct Sun and Sun conjunct Mercury).
These discoveries pushed me to draw up our synastry chart, which revealed a whole lot of Pluto (aspects such as Pluto conjunct Moon, Pluto trine Mars, Mars square Pluto, Pluto sextile Uranus), as well as Sun conjunct Eros, Mars square Moon (!), Neptune trine Sun, and Sun square Venus.
...I mean, with everything being so heavily loaded with all of these energies, I don't understand how we manage to still stay just friends. We're both in relationships, we have no power struggles occurring between us (which is surprising considering the number of squares).
So I guess my question is: do I overestimate "the Finger of Fate"'s significance here? Or, everything considered, is it inevitable that at some point our friendship will turn into something else?
Please, help me figure this out, my head already hurts just thinking about it