waybread
Well-known member
Graay ghost, I am sorry that your work experience has been so negative. Do you think you need a different line of work, or a different employer?
Please keep in mind that happiness is a choice.
This doesn't mean that you can magically re-arrange your circumstances to make them how you want them, so that you can subsequently feel happy. So long as you look to externalities to make you happy, it is hard to sustain happiness because we have almost no control over other people or events.
It does mean that you can choose to be happy independently of your circumstances. In fact, that's the only road to happiness there is.
Yes, people impose on us in life. Yes, employers exploit their workers. Life isn't fair. Our sense of entitlements is usually illusory. Not much has changed over the millennia there. Saturn is a hard-headed realist.
By my reckoning, you are still young, so it might be a good idea to be more open to the potential of your chart and your future. Self-defeating beliefs tend to become self-fulfilling prophecies.
If you don't believe any of this, then I am not sure how far astrology will really take you. Sometimes believing that s/he has a difficult chart merely feeds into someone's pre-existing sense of defeatism, rather than into a quest to use the horoscope as an instruction manual for greater self-fulfillment. I can't assist you any further than this.
Please keep in mind that happiness is a choice.
This doesn't mean that you can magically re-arrange your circumstances to make them how you want them, so that you can subsequently feel happy. So long as you look to externalities to make you happy, it is hard to sustain happiness because we have almost no control over other people or events.
It does mean that you can choose to be happy independently of your circumstances. In fact, that's the only road to happiness there is.
Yes, people impose on us in life. Yes, employers exploit their workers. Life isn't fair. Our sense of entitlements is usually illusory. Not much has changed over the millennia there. Saturn is a hard-headed realist.
By my reckoning, you are still young, so it might be a good idea to be more open to the potential of your chart and your future. Self-defeating beliefs tend to become self-fulfilling prophecies.
If you don't believe any of this, then I am not sure how far astrology will really take you. Sometimes believing that s/he has a difficult chart merely feeds into someone's pre-existing sense of defeatism, rather than into a quest to use the horoscope as an instruction manual for greater self-fulfillment. I can't assist you any further than this.