Thank you very much to all for sharing with me your yod information/experiences.
Star, your yod must be very fascinating, try to look more into it, having an apex Moon, in XII, in Scorpio....this is more than a minor conflict between your hobbies and your partner....
I have my own yod story, unfortunately most parts are too private to be shared. But I can tell you that I find my yod forcing me into a realm which I strongly don't like (my apex Saturn) as I've always played on Neptunian notes (no addiction involved), Neptune being strong in my chart. The immediate result was challenge, after challenge, after challenge....Challenge often means pain and sometimes it's true that there is no gain without pain, especially for people with yods, oppositions...different story for people with trines and grand trines
....so, I had gains from the other two plantes and houses involved in my yod, gains supervised and approved by Saturn as they were obviously fated - seeds planted before I was even born (house VIII), a totally change for my life direction (different country - house IX), and an encounter in which the exact position of my apex Saturn was involved.
And then I had challanges again, losses again, it looks that I didn't follow Saturn rules, I didn't do my yod, kind of North Node job. So here I am, trying to do my yod, come to peace with my demanding Saturn so largely spread on my chart 150 to the east, 150 to the west. But I might as well try to trick him again (Mercury is my ruler)
All the best and all the trines!