So i was hoping someone here could help interpret this issue i've recently become aware of in myself.
I think i have a fear of committing myself to virtually anything, whether it's a friendship, relationship, career or work. I'm militantly independent and the moment i feel my sense of freedom is been challenged i will walk the other way; i prefer to work casual jobs because i have the option of been able to leave at the drop of a hat, i save the majority of money i earn because through my eyes it allows for greater access to personal freedom such as traveling. Friends come and go for me.. i value them while they last but when there gone, there gone.. relationships is where it seems to get a bit tricky; when im in them.. i feel like i have no freedom over my life and i panic. I have a feeling this is because when i was a child growing up my mother was extremely controlling of everything in my life, and it took me until my late teenage years to regain control.
So now whenever i feel that my personal freedom is been threatened; imagined or real, i will walk away. It wasn't until i wrote this post that i realized how high i had the walls up within myself, i spent so many years under the control of someone else that i refuse to ever let anyone in, out of fear that the same process will happen again.
At least that's how I've come to understand this, and it's obviously shaped my entire lifestyle for better or worse..
This sounds specific to the conjunction of my Mars/Venus square Pluto, power struggles and been controlled, maybe Sun oppostion Uranus and Mars inconjunct Saturn?
EDIT: I noticed the opposition between Jupiter and Uranus is only 1 degree away from my Moon, i'm assuming as part of the conjunction the moon's energies would also be effected by this opposition with Uranus, which would have a considerable effect on relationships with people, feeling torn between wanting to be free and wanting to be intimate?
I think i have a fear of committing myself to virtually anything, whether it's a friendship, relationship, career or work. I'm militantly independent and the moment i feel my sense of freedom is been challenged i will walk the other way; i prefer to work casual jobs because i have the option of been able to leave at the drop of a hat, i save the majority of money i earn because through my eyes it allows for greater access to personal freedom such as traveling. Friends come and go for me.. i value them while they last but when there gone, there gone.. relationships is where it seems to get a bit tricky; when im in them.. i feel like i have no freedom over my life and i panic. I have a feeling this is because when i was a child growing up my mother was extremely controlling of everything in my life, and it took me until my late teenage years to regain control.
So now whenever i feel that my personal freedom is been threatened; imagined or real, i will walk away. It wasn't until i wrote this post that i realized how high i had the walls up within myself, i spent so many years under the control of someone else that i refuse to ever let anyone in, out of fear that the same process will happen again.
At least that's how I've come to understand this, and it's obviously shaped my entire lifestyle for better or worse..
This sounds specific to the conjunction of my Mars/Venus square Pluto, power struggles and been controlled, maybe Sun oppostion Uranus and Mars inconjunct Saturn?
EDIT: I noticed the opposition between Jupiter and Uranus is only 1 degree away from my Moon, i'm assuming as part of the conjunction the moon's energies would also be effected by this opposition with Uranus, which would have a considerable effect on relationships with people, feeling torn between wanting to be free and wanting to be intimate?
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