oh yeah
I mus have been distracted. venus is trine the node which is one of the best aspects for continuing emotional harmony. it gives very good feelings .
Sappho is opposed to eros which brings the same sex chemistry into play. I am still not clear about your feelings to her personally but this aspects shows you could be more than a friend. so if she is straiht then you migt let you inner emotions show.
hmmm moon conjunct to nesus and square to pluto. this needs delicacy s it shows there are deep unconscious psychological isues. one one hand this could indicate she would be open to a more romantic connection but at the same time she may have serious unconscious essue about intimacy.
Lilith opposed to the Saturn/psyche conjunction, another hmmm.
this could show a emotional interest as it can symbolize the age difference but with the nessus/pluto/moon dynamic plus this aspect. this is deep seated feeling so it is likely not conscious but definitely affects the conscious interactions.
this conjunction can be tricky because it can show attraction but with the other considerations it can show a motional cruel dynamic.
the nesuset.al. indicates potentially abusive motional childhood. plus Saturn/psyche there can be "perverse" reactions to these early experiences. such as pleasure and pain confusion .
this is really looking like a complicated emotional connection, one that must be approached very cautiously and sensitively .
with erso opposed Sappho on the MC/IC axis, it is beginning to look like she would not be adverse to some sort of intimate connection.but still it is difficult to see if hereaction of the above sequence of aspects would produce a positive or negative reaction. you are very wise to ask about how to approach this as a false step could really bring up problems.
I ll add some more tomorrow but I have to log off now
rahu