Hi again. I'm dredging up this old, ancient, archaic post in hopes of some insight. Two days ago, I was in an extremely dark place. Let me state, I am not suicidal at present! I am safe, surrounded by friends and family, and working through my issues. However, I recently tried to end everything. I'd love some guidance right now.
In this thread, many of you said I would find romance in the second half of this year (so I assumed summer-time-ish, since I'll be back home from my all-girls school where I wouldn't be attracted to anyone since I'm heterosexual girl). My ex and I talked about trying again this summer. When I suggested this possibility earlier in this thread, everyone told me it wouldn't be him. It turns out... you guys are right! I really, desperately need to let go of this guy and move on because he brings out the worst in me and our relationship is so out-of-this-world unhealthy and toxic. This leads me to my most recent question. There's a guy who I met not too long ago who wants to meet me this summer and hang out. He mysteriously popped back into my life when I least expected and frankly, I never thought I'd see him again. Could this be the new romance that was indicated? I could try posting a chart.
Basically, my main question is: what is the guy like/what happens/what should I look for? Any information is great and also, I focus on this (relationships) because if you guys say theres a probability I'll get hurt, I'll be sure to use additional caution or steer clear altogether to focus on myself. I also ask this because most of you indicated relationship potential down the road and I'm curious and want to be prepared. Some other potentially helpful info: I'm working three jobs this summer and taking a college class.
Thanks!
Predictive astrology cannot be that specific. Educated guesses is the best we can make.
Late in 2018, as it prepares to leave Scorpio, Jupiter will cross your DC. Jupiter on your DC is one astrologically good time for new people to come into your life. Doesn't always mean romantic interests, although if you're available for a relationship, new people coming into your life could certainly include a romantic partner.
Last time Jupiter crossed your DC, you were eight years old. It would've been around the time you started third grade (assuming you started first grade the fall after you turned six and went through school at the usual pace). Who came into your life around that time? That's the kind of thing Jupiter on the DC brings.
Really, though, a new relationship can start at any time. Astrological factors may point to the most likely times, but they don't guarantee it, and the most likely times aren't always when it happens. It could happen when you don't think the transits are favorable for it.
Astrology cannot spell out who your next partner will be or what they'll be like. What kind of people you tend to draw into your life is suggested by your seventh house, but that's just a vague suggestion. If what you meant by "what is the guy like" is this particular guy you might hang out with, the only reliable way to find out is spend time with him and get to know him. Next best way is to ask people who know him well, although since they're not you, that wouldn't tell you what he'd be like as a partner for you. Astrology can't do that work for you. Even if you have his birth info, a chart wouldn't tell us whether he's a good guy or a monster. The same birth chart could belong to either. It depends on what they're doing with the planetary hand they were dealt.
What astrology is very, very good for is spotting the relationship risks in your chart. If you've had a bad relationship, or multiple relationships that went badly for similar reasons, that typically means one of two things: there's something particularly challenging about relationships for you, which would be indicated in your chart, and how you could work with the challenge would also be indicated. Or, you're not going about relationships in a way that fits with what your chart shows you need.
In your case, it looks like a challenging factor. Pluto in the seventh sets you up for power struggles and possibly even abuse in relationships, because Pluto's placement shows where we face issues around power, in what area of our lives we're most likely to be disempowered, and when we'd be susceptible to giving our power away. If Pluto is in your seventh house, you're highly susceptible to giving your power away in relationships. But, when you give your power away, you draw people into your life who reflect the worst qualities of your seventh house back at you. Pluto in the seventh gives them the worst possible qualities to reflect back.
If you don't own your power, and consciously, you'll give it away in your next relationship, too, and it will then go badly, no matter who you're with. So, before you can have a good relationship, you need to be self empowered. If you are, then you can draw in someone who is also self empowered--the best quality of Pluto--and doesn't need to take power over you or get into power struggles.