Is he seeing another girl there? No.. right?

I’m stressing about my partner after I found out a few lies he told me. I can’t believe he would actually cheat on me, and he’s done everything he can to show me he’s loyal and wants to make it work.. but I’m on the verge of ruining everything bc of my paranoia that he’ll never change, and I see darkness everywhere

CHART HERE https://m.imgur.com/a/wS84tzl

He’s on a trip at the moment. We were chatting and when I asked about what he was up to today he got vague, then I asked something else and he ignored me and changed the subject.. so naturally I started freaking out. I wanna know if I’m delusional and paranoid so I can drop it, or if something’s up.

I asked “Is he meeting a girl there?”

I’m Mars in Pisces in the 11th, (strongly wary about people my bf might be socialising with) and sign ruler Jupiter is in dignity in Cap., (he’s just working and nothing to worry about) and in the 9th ruled by Jup. — Jup sits in dignity in Sagittarius, in the 8th house ruled by Mars. Im honest? Or I’m seeing clearly? Am I going too far down the rabbit hole?

My bf is Venus, in dignity in Libra in the 7th house, (not doing anything wrong, a bit self absorbed maybe but pure of heart). I’m in his house of exaltation, so Venus loves Mars. He’s in the sign that exalts my house ruler, but he’s in Mars’ house of detriment, so at a thinking level I adore him, but but I don’t feel good with him just now bc I don’t trust him.

I’m conjunct Neptune which could mean delusion but since it’s secondary ruler of the sign I’m in, it might mean psychic intuition. I’m sextile my 11th house ruler, Capricorn Saturn in the 10th.

Chiron in Pisces in the 12th is in crisis, I think it relates to me and being pretty mental and depressed about this whole thing, which is affecting my perception.

The most important things I don’t know enough about — aspects.. Mars and Venus trine each other, so that’s kind of an easy enough energy and nice. But their contacts with luminaries are squares.

Secondary: Moon and sun trine each other too. But Venus squares the moon, and Sun squares Mars. Sun would be in detriment in Mars’ house ruler, and in fall in Venus’ house ruler. Moon is in dignity in Cancer. So underneath he is also angry at me, for the pressure I’m putting on him, but I’m not liking the Mercury I can see backing into Sun. However, Venus doesn’t aspect Merc and Merc is in detriment.

The other things is that Tristan — the first love that never healed, heartbreak, broken loyalty— is opposite the Sun and Merc :/ and the main problem is that he was still in touch with his ex when he said he wasn’t. It’s also square Mars. Then Lie is on the MC, and Kasandra — telling the truth but not being believed, is exact conjunct on Venus.

So.. he’s not meeting a girl over the next day or two on this trip, and even if Mercury is coming for the sun, she’s combust and in detriment, and Mars is making things very difficult for them anyway with the square. Mars and Venus will continue to trine each other for a week or so (10° orb tho) but also coming into square the nodes.

Sorry for the long analysis! Typing it all out really helps to notice everything, but I kind of feel like I’ve missed the answer..?

Please help, I need to know if I should be on alert or if I should just take a Xanax

Hi lux111,

Here is my first comment on other people's horary charts on this forum.

I base my astrological analysis mostly on Frawley.

Here is my analysis:

1. An answer to the question: No, your boyfriend is not seeing another girl on this trip.

Here is why:

1. He is alone in his own sign in his own house. According to Frawley, if another planet is in the same sign close to the conjunction (applying or separating) with your boyfriend's significator (Venus), another planet would be another girl/woman. As his significator is alone in Libra, the answer is no. There is no other girl on this trip.

2. Further analysis:
He is in his own sign. He is in good "shape" mentally, strong, sane, good person, with good intentions, etc.

He is in his own house. He is focused on himself right now (during this business trip).

The moon (could be you talking to him recently) or his work (moon is the ruler of his 10th house), separated by square recently. Because it is a square aspect, it could mean he experienced tensions regarding his work (it could just mean tough day, exhaustion...) on this trip or it could represent the conversation you mentioned.

Best wishes,
Saki

Careful, he doesn't seem to be with anyone, but the moon/North Node separating a square with Venus, and squaring Uranus conjunct the ascendent (you) seems to say you are wearing him out with jealousy, and he might just unexpectedly take off. Let him have some space.

adanevol said:

Hi lux111,

Here is my first comment on other people's horary charts on this forum.

I base my astrological analysis mostly on Frawley.

Here is my analysis:

1. An answer to the question: No, your boyfriend is not seeing another girl on this trip.

Here is why:

1. He is alone in his own sign in his own house. According to Frawley, if another planet is in the same sign close to the conjunction (applying or separating) with your boyfriend's significator (Venus), another planet would be another girl/woman. As his significator is alone in Libra, the answer is no. There is no other girl on this trip.

2. Further analysis:
He is in his own sign. He is in good "shape" mentally, strong, sane, good person, with good intentions, etc.

He is in his own house. He is focused on himself right now (during this business trip).

The moon (could be you talking to him recently) or his work (moon is the ruler of his 10th house), separated by square recently. Because it is a square aspect, it could mean he experienced tensions regarding his work (it could just mean tough day, exhaustion...) on this trip or it could represent the conversation you mentioned.

Best wishes,
Saki

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Thanks so much for your careful analysis Saki, and I’m so honoured to be the recipient of your first post!!

Your ideas about the moon could both be true, we had a tense talk, but then found our way back to centre so the square has moved off.. and he also drove nearly 700km so he had a big, exhausting day.

ElenaJ said:

Careful, he doesn't seem to be with anyone, but the moon/North Node separating a square with Venus, and squaring Uranus conjunct the ascendent (you) seems to say you are wearing him out with jealousy, and he might just unexpectedly take off. Let him have some space.

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Yeah that makes sense, but why would it be his action if Uranus is on the AC (me) and squaring Moon (me)? Bc the Moon’s tension is moving from Venus to Uranus and transferring the energy/light? Or bc of the opposition? I’m constantly ready to ‘dump and run’ but I feel like I might be evoking that feeling in him now too, one day it would get too much. I’m not generally jealous at all but I’m just finding it hard to calm myself down after the bad last couple of months.... guess he looks honest enough in this chart that I should try..
thank you for your advice, I’ll be more careful

I think the Uranus on the AC was me. I broke up with him