Hey,
I apologise for not having replied before, I was a little occupied with my univ assignments.
Ok, I agree with Tikana, anyone in their right mind would.
If you know he is violent, do not put up with him. It's ok, you will find love again. It might take sometime, of course. Do what your heart tells. It isn't worth it if you want to be with him because you are scared you won't find anybody else. You should be with someone because you want to be with him.