hi swirly
the composite has some very good relationship aspects.moon trine to jupiter brings affection, respect and a feeling of longterm potential.the venus/jupiter midpoint is conjunct the sun which shows you truly enjoy each other's company as well as a strong emotional attraction.and the venus/sun midpoint is conjunct mars,again an indice of a strong emotional/physical attraction. venus/moon/sun/jupiter in harmonious aspects are often indicative of marriage and this composite has these in good aspect to each other.venus on the descendant also shows a spontaneous affection is is an excellent placement for a steady relationship.
but there is also a patttern of aspects that qualify the above aspects.
venus is square to the uranus/saturn/neptune stellium at the nadir.this shows potentially confusing emotional situations.the saturn/uranus shows that there it is often difficult to arrive at decsions about the relationship.the saturn/uranus is a classic hem and haw aspect ,it implies that he is noncomittal most times .neptune shows that thereis quite a bit impl;ied and non stated beteeen you.this position shows that he can be quite evasive at times especially as to how he feels about the relationship..
with the venus/mars midpoint and mercury square to neptune, thereis a strong deceptive quality hre especially in relationships as this aspect often shows infidelityand in fact there is a strong deceptive feel here.
while the sun conjunct to the venus/jupiter midpoint bodes well for the relationship,the amrs/pluto midpoint is square the sun.this is a troubling aspect because it implies that sexuality is at the base of his emotional needs.love,sharing and bonding are lost in the dust of pluto sensual,carnal focus.
with venus sqaure to uranus .you have an intense emotional/physical connection but these feelings can quickly burn out,especially when sexuality is th eprimary focus.
another ominious aspect is that the moon/saturn midpoint is conjunct pluto and opposed to the jupiter/sun midpoint,theses influences often show that there is another relationship that impinges on this one.often this marks a relationship were professional; ambitions get in the way of love and committment.not enough quality times basically.the moon/saturn midpoint is symbolic of devotion but not always discretion.such a position will remain loyal even if th erelationship does not deserve.unfortunately i feel this is our situation.
with uranus square the ascendant,after the thrill is gone this shows a breakup.
with neptune conjunct to saturn ,he is not telling you what you don't want to hear.
you say currently you are living separately,my feelings are tha6 this new arrangement occured recently.it seemsthatin march and june,the relationship was going great but since then and into august ,he changed,because distant and wasn't turned on by you anymore.then the idea to live separately.
rahu