Hello nightfall,
now i took time to read ur post , instead just looking at your chart and start shooting theories and patterns.
Im sorry for that.
I feel you, we have the same positions (saturn and moon) in houses but not in the same signs, and i know what is to feel like a prisioner in home, u cant do ur own thing because u are in their house, if u do something out of their norms they start shouting and repressing, u can go out, but u dont want to because sometimes theres no one to go with ( to take a coffee or something) there is no job to get paid and move out of the house,
ive been there believe me. im still there actually, but i have a job and if things go south in home i actually can move out. it will happen this year problably.
but now about u, im going to put astrology aside for a while,
what i think would be great if u listen the john bradshaw homecoming seminar, you can download it by torrent or something. To start healing your wounds.
another thing that i want to share is, strangely things appear when we already dont need them, so about that social situation, you could start developing more hobbies focusing on something u like, and the rest will come naturally.
i would like to know your details if u want me to check ur progressions or solar returns for the next years.
wish u all the best.