spiritwoman
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I am facing a complicating family situation and need an advise. The situation is rather critical.
My mother was diagnosed with Parkinson recently. Before the diagnosis, she was wrongly diagnosed with depression and my sister wanted to put her in a institution, and I was against it. She has been abusing my mother over the past decade, spending her money (a lot), and now she wants to get rid of her so she can get an access to her apartment. I have arranged for a day care for her, and my sister is threatening me that she won't go and check on the nurses unless I agree for an institution. She also threatened my mother that she would beat her if she seeks help from her. I live in a neighboring country so I visit her occasionally but have been paying bills and still paying for the daycare. Now I am about to relocate to a far away country, and will loose control over the situation.
My brother in law does not talk to me and my mother for the past ten years, because he was putting pressure on my mother to give away her nice apartment to them, which she refused, and ever since she was denied access to their home, and barely sees her grandchildren. In my absence, he started coming to visit my mother, and pretends that he cares for her.
Both of them have been equally abusive to me, especially my sister.
I am not in good terms with my father, whom I haven't seen in 20 years and my parents are divorced. My sister keeps occasional touch with him but does not care for him at all. He is an alcoholic, lives alone and refuses to go to the hospital. My nephew, who is 20, told me that they might have forced my father into giving them the custody so they can inherit his house after his death.
They are both lousy parents and abuse their children. My little nephew who is 10 is almost obese, is being bulled at school, my sister screams and yells at him and he is an emotionally disturbed child already. I bought him a parrot for his birthday with the consent from my sister. My bother in law refused to take the parrot at home, threatening my sister that he will leave the home. My nephew suffered and had an emotional break down. They returned the parrot to the pet shop.
I had a fight with my sister over the parrot, and she yelled and insulted me.
So I posted a text on the facebook without mentioning my nephew and without revealing any of their identities, basically criticizing their parenting style in a way to pass the message to my sister because there was no other way to communicate my concern.
Now I am receiving treats from my sister and brother in law that they will sue me over the post.
Moreover, they took my mother's ID, and since I don't live there, I think that are going to claim custody over my mother in order to get her apartment. Plus they refuse to share documents on my fathers house. Now that I am about to leave to a far away place, I am afraid that as abusive as they are, they might force my sick mother to agree to give them the custody and the apartment.
I keep receiving treats on a daily basis from my sister, who is basically saying that I will be going through hell with them, they will make me suffer, etc, but soon they will let me know what is going to happen to me. I am afraid that I might be left without any inheritance plus I am not sure what my brither in law is up to since he works for the ministry of foreign affairs and is very ruthless.
So, what are they up to with me over the property issues and my mother?
It's rather complicated, I know how to read a horary chart, but I am stuck on this one.
Please help
My mother was diagnosed with Parkinson recently. Before the diagnosis, she was wrongly diagnosed with depression and my sister wanted to put her in a institution, and I was against it. She has been abusing my mother over the past decade, spending her money (a lot), and now she wants to get rid of her so she can get an access to her apartment. I have arranged for a day care for her, and my sister is threatening me that she won't go and check on the nurses unless I agree for an institution. She also threatened my mother that she would beat her if she seeks help from her. I live in a neighboring country so I visit her occasionally but have been paying bills and still paying for the daycare. Now I am about to relocate to a far away country, and will loose control over the situation.
My brother in law does not talk to me and my mother for the past ten years, because he was putting pressure on my mother to give away her nice apartment to them, which she refused, and ever since she was denied access to their home, and barely sees her grandchildren. In my absence, he started coming to visit my mother, and pretends that he cares for her.
Both of them have been equally abusive to me, especially my sister.
I am not in good terms with my father, whom I haven't seen in 20 years and my parents are divorced. My sister keeps occasional touch with him but does not care for him at all. He is an alcoholic, lives alone and refuses to go to the hospital. My nephew, who is 20, told me that they might have forced my father into giving them the custody so they can inherit his house after his death.
They are both lousy parents and abuse their children. My little nephew who is 10 is almost obese, is being bulled at school, my sister screams and yells at him and he is an emotionally disturbed child already. I bought him a parrot for his birthday with the consent from my sister. My bother in law refused to take the parrot at home, threatening my sister that he will leave the home. My nephew suffered and had an emotional break down. They returned the parrot to the pet shop.
I had a fight with my sister over the parrot, and she yelled and insulted me.
So I posted a text on the facebook without mentioning my nephew and without revealing any of their identities, basically criticizing their parenting style in a way to pass the message to my sister because there was no other way to communicate my concern.
Now I am receiving treats from my sister and brother in law that they will sue me over the post.
Moreover, they took my mother's ID, and since I don't live there, I think that are going to claim custody over my mother in order to get her apartment. Plus they refuse to share documents on my fathers house. Now that I am about to leave to a far away place, I am afraid that as abusive as they are, they might force my sick mother to agree to give them the custody and the apartment.
I keep receiving treats on a daily basis from my sister, who is basically saying that I will be going through hell with them, they will make me suffer, etc, but soon they will let me know what is going to happen to me. I am afraid that I might be left without any inheritance plus I am not sure what my brither in law is up to since he works for the ministry of foreign affairs and is very ruthless.
So, what are they up to with me over the property issues and my mother?
It's rather complicated, I know how to read a horary chart, but I am stuck on this one.
Please help