In my experience Aquarius Venus (or even Aquarius Sun/Asc) give people alot of space & don't get offended by Non-heterosexual relationships. Similarly Uranus contacts with Venus, Mars or Moon seem to be OK.
Moon-Venus is appreciation for Beauty/women & is there at times in the charts of Lesbians.
Air relates more to the intellectual connections & adjust to bisexuality easier than other elements so Gemini Or Libra influences might give way as well.