Sigh....
In the choice-centered astrology I practice, all of our astrological placements have empowering and disempowering interpretations that are consistent with the core meanings of each planet, sign, or house. They key is to choose and implement the empowering interpretations.
Tiff, I don't know what is your university major, but I think you would make a good clinical psychologist. Once you begin to use your 7th house to plumb the depths of another's psyche in a therapeutic way, vs. attracting negative Plutonian types of men, I think you'll see a big change.
I am in engineering, my class has 300 people with 296 of them being men. lol. Yes, I think you made a good point in your second paragraph!! "use your 7th house to plumb the depths of another's psyche in a therapeutic way" I like the way you wrote this.