We had a long distance relationship for a couple years. He stopped contacting me altogether. I emailed him a year later. He told me he had made a mistake, his feelings were strong for me, and that he just wasn't ready for a serious relationship then. He also didn't think I'd ever move even though I would have. I think he had a girlfriend when I contacted him then.
A few months later he contacted me saying he didn't have a girlfriend. He showed a bit of interest in being more than friends with me, but I was still angry about him disappearing and couldn't give anything more than friendship a shot. After about 6 months I thought I wanted more, and was going to call him and tell him one day. Before I could say it, he told me had a girlfriend. They had been on and off in the past (I think this is the woman he was with when I first reconnected with him), and that things were getting serious. I asked if this would be the last time we talk, and he said no, he didn't want to lose our friendship, and then that he was unsure about where things would go with her.
About a month later he said things were getting more serious with her and we couldn't talk anymore. I took it pretty well, because I felt awkward talking to him while he has a girlfriend, and we had only a couple texts since. Then 6 weeks later he sends me a message saying happy new year, and what his new phone number is. It really upset me, because I was doing so well with no contact at all. Then a few days ago I saw that he's engaged to the woman. A couple months earlier he had told me because of his divorce he didn't want to rush into another marriage and would wait at least a couple years more.
He and her have an exact moon opposite uranus and a wide moon conjunct uranus in synastry. In composite, a 3 degree moon square uranus.
He and I have an exact venus opposite pluto, a 3 degree venus conjunct pluto. In composite a 1 degree venus square pluto.
I'd like to know if he's still unsure of her, manipulating me and trying to stay in my life somehow, or what. So my question is, what does he want from me?
I guess I am the sun and he is the uranus. I think that's a separating sextile between them. With him being in the 9th house does that mean he did want to talk to me but doesn't now? I assume the moon in on the ascendant confirms that I'm emotional.
A few months later he contacted me saying he didn't have a girlfriend. He showed a bit of interest in being more than friends with me, but I was still angry about him disappearing and couldn't give anything more than friendship a shot. After about 6 months I thought I wanted more, and was going to call him and tell him one day. Before I could say it, he told me had a girlfriend. They had been on and off in the past (I think this is the woman he was with when I first reconnected with him), and that things were getting serious. I asked if this would be the last time we talk, and he said no, he didn't want to lose our friendship, and then that he was unsure about where things would go with her.
About a month later he said things were getting more serious with her and we couldn't talk anymore. I took it pretty well, because I felt awkward talking to him while he has a girlfriend, and we had only a couple texts since. Then 6 weeks later he sends me a message saying happy new year, and what his new phone number is. It really upset me, because I was doing so well with no contact at all. Then a few days ago I saw that he's engaged to the woman. A couple months earlier he had told me because of his divorce he didn't want to rush into another marriage and would wait at least a couple years more.
He and her have an exact moon opposite uranus and a wide moon conjunct uranus in synastry. In composite, a 3 degree moon square uranus.
He and I have an exact venus opposite pluto, a 3 degree venus conjunct pluto. In composite a 1 degree venus square pluto.
I'd like to know if he's still unsure of her, manipulating me and trying to stay in my life somehow, or what. So my question is, what does he want from me?
I guess I am the sun and he is the uranus. I think that's a separating sextile between them. With him being in the 9th house does that mean he did want to talk to me but doesn't now? I assume the moon in on the ascendant confirms that I'm emotional.
