Lissa
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This is the chart of my best friend's ex boyfriend.THey had been together for almost 3 years and during that time they broke up a lot of times,she was always the one to break up but he always made her come back to him.Now,it seems they are broken up for good,but he is making it so hard for her to move on...
This guy is the biggest stalker I have ever seen.He is rude,agressive and ill-mannered and has even been violent to her at times,I don't know why she only decided to break up with im now,I guess it was only now that she found the strenght needed to do so.He must always have everything his way,is incredibly jealous and would try to control every single aspect of her life,wouldn't even allow her to go out with her friends!He has the most horrible temper and is quite whimsical too,his moods are always up and down and he changes his mind out of the blue.He has made the past three years very difficult for her...and seems like he is now willing to make the future times a complete disaster as well.
This guy is an intense stalker,ever since they broke up he calls me everyday and asks me if I am with my friend...I don't even know how he got my cellphone number!He has even gone to my house,I wasn't home so he asked my mum if my friend was at my place,then he asked if I was home,and then he finally left.Every time they break up he stalks her,parks in front of her door late at night,doesn't stop calling her on her cellphone,insists she will go back to him wether she likes it or not.Now that he sees she has really made up her mind he keeps on trying to get her back and,with him calling me everyday to see if I am with her or if I know where my friend is and showing up at my door asking for her,I'm starting to feel a little bit stalked too.
This afternoon he just made the craziest thing.I was home ironing when my cellphone started ringing,I picked up the phone and it was him...once again I must stress I don't even know how he got my cellphone number...he asks me if I am with my friend,I say know,and then I tell him "Well I think she is at the physiotherapy"...Now I know I shouldn't have said that,but honestly,at the time,it didn't even occurred to me he would show up at the hospital,waiting for her..He did not only wait for her,he brought two friends with him,and then he was very rude and agressive to my friend's physioteraphist,a young woman who happens to be on a friendly base with her and drives her home after every session;then,he chased my friend as the physioterapist was driving her home,the physioteraist even wanted to call the cops,but my friend insisted it would be better not to...So my friend called her older brother who went on his car and had a chat with her ex boyfriend...the guy was quite rude to my friend's brother too..And insisted he only wanted to make amends...And even showed the flowers he had brought for my friend!
My question is,why does this guy have to be like this????I feel so awful now,knowing what I put my friend through with my silly mistake!
The thing that strikes me the most is the Moon/Pluto square,especially in the two 'power signs'-Scrorpio and Leo...I guess he just feels entitled to get what he wants and,when he doesn't,he just throws a big tantrum.BUt there's got to be more to it!His chart puzzles me,he has such 'easy going' aspects-of course the Moon/Pluto square is a big one and shouldn't be overlooked but he has a tight Moon/Jupiter cnjunction trining his Sun after all...shouldn't that be the make up a well balanced,cheerful,positive individual?This guy surely has the whole world spining around him and he is quite good at getting people to like him,but,believe me,he has the most horrible temper!Why does he have to be like this??
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This guy is the biggest stalker I have ever seen.He is rude,agressive and ill-mannered and has even been violent to her at times,I don't know why she only decided to break up with im now,I guess it was only now that she found the strenght needed to do so.He must always have everything his way,is incredibly jealous and would try to control every single aspect of her life,wouldn't even allow her to go out with her friends!He has the most horrible temper and is quite whimsical too,his moods are always up and down and he changes his mind out of the blue.He has made the past three years very difficult for her...and seems like he is now willing to make the future times a complete disaster as well.
This guy is an intense stalker,ever since they broke up he calls me everyday and asks me if I am with my friend...I don't even know how he got my cellphone number!He has even gone to my house,I wasn't home so he asked my mum if my friend was at my place,then he asked if I was home,and then he finally left.Every time they break up he stalks her,parks in front of her door late at night,doesn't stop calling her on her cellphone,insists she will go back to him wether she likes it or not.Now that he sees she has really made up her mind he keeps on trying to get her back and,with him calling me everyday to see if I am with her or if I know where my friend is and showing up at my door asking for her,I'm starting to feel a little bit stalked too.
This afternoon he just made the craziest thing.I was home ironing when my cellphone started ringing,I picked up the phone and it was him...once again I must stress I don't even know how he got my cellphone number...he asks me if I am with my friend,I say know,and then I tell him "Well I think she is at the physiotherapy"...Now I know I shouldn't have said that,but honestly,at the time,it didn't even occurred to me he would show up at the hospital,waiting for her..He did not only wait for her,he brought two friends with him,and then he was very rude and agressive to my friend's physioteraphist,a young woman who happens to be on a friendly base with her and drives her home after every session;then,he chased my friend as the physioterapist was driving her home,the physioteraist even wanted to call the cops,but my friend insisted it would be better not to...So my friend called her older brother who went on his car and had a chat with her ex boyfriend...the guy was quite rude to my friend's brother too..And insisted he only wanted to make amends...And even showed the flowers he had brought for my friend!
My question is,why does this guy have to be like this????I feel so awful now,knowing what I put my friend through with my silly mistake!
The thing that strikes me the most is the Moon/Pluto square,especially in the two 'power signs'-Scrorpio and Leo...I guess he just feels entitled to get what he wants and,when he doesn't,he just throws a big tantrum.BUt there's got to be more to it!His chart puzzles me,he has such 'easy going' aspects-of course the Moon/Pluto square is a big one and shouldn't be overlooked but he has a tight Moon/Jupiter cnjunction trining his Sun after all...shouldn't that be the make up a well balanced,cheerful,positive individual?This guy surely has the whole world spining around him and he is quite good at getting people to like him,but,believe me,he has the most horrible temper!Why does he have to be like this??
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