Relationships in my chart

Not sure which section to put this in but I am wondering what my chart says about the realtionships I will have.

I know that venus and moon and the ruler of the 7th house are indicative of the relationships that you will have, sun in the 11th with leo in the 7th means that I will meet partners at my work, so I read off one site that talked about the houses and their rulers. Venus in th 1st and moon in the third might mean that she has a fun personality (putting the arian and gemini influence together here). Moon in taurus indicates a loyal and stably partner but venus in aquarius might mean......? I dont know.

Im not sure what else to think with saturn doing what its doing (I know its not helping...) and im not sure how my nodes will influence my relationships either.

Any insights would be appreciated.

I look at relationships through 2 main filters.

Firstly, there's your Venus - its sign and house, and its natal aspects.
Secondly I look at the asteroid Juno for the kind of relationship you are likely to unconsciously search for and create.

Your Venus is widely conjunct your Asc, and is in Aquarius and in the 1st house. This screams `independence' to me, so you may unconsciously put up walls between yourself and the objects of your interest, even when you don't mean to do so.
Added to that is the square with Saturn, which will add to the difficulties you experience in opening up and relating to others. Then there's a semi-square to Cap Sun from Venus - this is tricky because your lack of self-love may be offset by a certain personal drive, and while you are still young these two factors can be at odds with one another.
Your Venus is not `happily' aspected, but you already know that. Try to look upon this as a set of tasks which you have to go through in your life for you to reach balance and maturity. Your Venus-Pluto trine needs to be worked with consciously. If and when you find yourself feeling out-of-control in any relationship - like you have a compulsive need to be with a person - then pull back, as this is a time to reflect, rather than to be entering into a relationship.

Your Juno placement appears to be (around) 10 degrees 53' in Libra, so check out these links for insight into this. Be aware that Juno will describe what it is you look for, and this will probably operate at the unconscious level.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/000704.html
http://tribes.tribe.net/asteroid_astrology/thread/10878d69-8e8f-47c1-8017-a300b467c228
If you want more information about Juno you'll have to google it yourself.

jay, I suspect that you've looked at your Venus and thought: O M G!! My love life is doomed! Don't do that. Your relationships can be challenging, that is all. One thing you will have to learn is to look at a past relationship - which has gone `wrong' - and look at how your own behaviour and attitudes (even the unconscious ones) contributed to what happened. This is the best way for you to grow into being able to handle the responsibilities of an adult relationship.

JayM said:

Im not sure what else to think with saturn doing what its doing (I know its not helping...) and im not sure how my nodes will influence my relationships either.

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And to answer your question about nodes, you need to understand that your south node placement - sign and house - will be what you are familiar with and so will tend to drift back into, while your north node shows where you have to strive in your life, especially once you reach the age of 40. This is not specifically about your relationships, but I feel that it is something you should research. I have my nodal placements the same as yours - in both sign and house - and I still struggle with my Scorpio south node, which convinces me that Life = struggle and trauma and difficulty.

I suggest that you read as much as you can, beginning here:
http://northnodeastrology.blogspot.com.au/
http://tribes.tribe.net/moonsnodes/thread/bf1c2bf2-a0b0-4780-8465-4f58343bccd5
http://northnodeastrology.blogspot.com.au/search/label/North Node in Taurus

And with Saturn conjunct your south node in Scorpio you have to take into account the Saturnian influence on `where you have come from'.
http://northnodeastrology.blogspot.com.au/search/label/Planets conjunct the Nodes

Thank you raven, as always that is extremely usful info

Do you however know what saturn conjunt south node means directly and in terms of the aspects that it makes? I know that saturn conjunt south node means that:

- SN is the escape and I am escaping from saturn

- There is a karmic "redoing" of something

Can offer insights? Thank you

Edit: Raven can you tell me what vesta represents? its also in libra in my 8th.

JayM said:

Do you however know what saturn conjunt south node means directly and in terms of the aspects that it makes?

Edit: Raven can you tell me what vesta represents? its also in libra in my 8th.

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Firstly, when a planet is conjunct either node, it adds influence to that node.
With Saturn conjunct south node in Scorpio, you have to consider that you `brought in' with you (I say `brought in' because in my view, the nodes indicate what we have brought in from other lifetimes as a task to finish in this lifetime)
a tendency towards self-control, self-reliance, going-it-alone, and relying on authority to get your needs met. In other lifetimes you may have been a person in authority, and so in this lifetime you are having to learn how to live your life without being dominant and in charge. However, you do not shirk hard work and responsibility.

As I `read' your Saturn conj South Node, I think that it further distances you from people - on top of that Venus in Aquarius placement - because it makes you feel that you have to get things done on your own, and no-one can help you - you have to do it yourself.

As for Vesta, here's some reading, and so you can figure it out for yourself:
http://www.astrology3d.com/educenter/asteroids.html
http://www.alwaysastrology.com/vesta-signs.html