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Unread 03-03-2016, 06:46 AM
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A few weeks ago I met a guy and we started seeing each other. We're very different in terms of social classes (which shouldn't matter), education etc and want different stuff in life. We started seeing eachother and it got very intense - we would be with each other all the time etc. I said a few things that hurt him (he has very low self esteem and depression and my behaviour didn't help).

I really want him back and will do anything to do that. He seems like hes not good enough for me etc.

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1) Mars in Scorpio but in the 1st; and the Moon in the 8th
2) venus in the 11th ; in his 5th. I know sex is the last thing on his mind as he's been a gentleman etc.
3) I'm meeting him on Monday to try work things out but he thinks there's no going back

Everything was going well. We were really into eachother and spent every minute and day either with each other in person or in each others company.

The mercury would be his ex girlfriend - he was seeing her before me and he ended things in a similar fashion (first time dating a scorpio and I know I can't place importance on sun signs, but god).

Just out of nowhere after telling me hes crazy about me, ends things after a few hours. I'm so hurt as I really liked him.

there's no point of connection between venus and mars - it seems like it wont work out, the moon will meet venus but there's zero reception

is there any way this will work? I'm devastated
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Unread 03-03-2016, 07:02 AM
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im thinking of him every god **** minute :'(
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Re: Him and I

Hey Summer,

good to hear from you!

I had a quick look, the reception is lacking here. Venus in Aqua is in its own term, no interest in Mars (you). Mars in detriment of Venus, so yes you've hurt him, your view of him is somehow negative. Mars is strong in its own sign, perhaps you came off too strong and negative towards him. Mercury is separating from Venus, but will translate between the two significators. Mercury, what it is, not sure, contact between you perhaps?

Moon is also applying Venus. So there is something developing, but lack of reception shows there may not be that 'glue' to make it work. But there is aspect, so opportunity is there, Mars changes sign and will not be as negative towards Venus, so hopefully, ou've learned from your mistake.

This could still be a relationship but whether its longterm...I don't know.

all the best!
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Hey Summer,

good to hear from you!

I had a quick look, the reception is lacking here. Venus in Aqua is in its own term, no interest in Mars (you). Mars in detriment of Venus, so yes you've hurt him, your view of him is somehow negative. Mars is strong in its own sign, perhaps you came off too strong and negative towards him. Mercury is separating from Venus, but will translate between the two significators. Mercury, what it is, not sure, contact between you perhaps?

Moon is also applying Venus. So there is something developing, but lack of reception shows there may not be that 'glue' to make it work. But there is aspect, so opportunity is there, Mars changes sign and will not be as negative towards Venus, so hopefully, ou've learned from your mistake.

This could still be a relationship but whether its longterm...I don't know.

all the best!

hey rafaella - nice to hear from you too

my view of him in the long term is negative and there's always something at the back of my mind that I can do better - but over the past even ive fell for him - more than I should have.


we're meeting on Monday as he's left his stuff here. we're meeting for a drink and I might try to reconcile as I do want to know if there's something more but im not hopeful.

I made the stupid mistake of seeing my ex one day after breaking up since I was crying and he seems to be very angry at the news.

I'd do anything to get him back but seems like theres no return
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Re: Him and I

The last chart was so good and nothing happened. This one isn't as good, so maybe opposites are a thing and something might occur??

Hope everything works out.
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The last chart was so good and nothing happened. This one isn't as good, so maybe opposites are a thing and something might occur??

Hope everything works out.


Maybe the charts aren't valid. LOL (It sounds funny but is really not)

Serious comment:
We have to be very careful in the way we ask an horary question. I can say by experience that Horary has "some accuracy" when it is used in a proper way, but if not, it can be quite tricky and even dangerous.

Really really the more I use it and the more I study horary, the less I rely on it. I can say horary accuracy is 50% and only tells about the CURRENT circumstances, definitely not more than a month or when the querent changes its destiny.


Sorry I told this in the horary section. This phrase -The last chart was so good and nothing happened.- made me think quite a lot, plus my own experience with horary.

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