Sos synastry

hello everyone, i am in the middle of a tough choice, i have been in an on and off relationship with a nice man, but unfortunately we cant get along well. i recently met someone else who seems really nice and we formed a relationship but our synastry is really tricky potentially destructive - could please someone take a look at it and give me some insight? i really dont want to mess up my life. thank u for taking the time i am posting the charts

synastry chart, composite, and our natals

http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?...6&smon=6&syr=2014&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=
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http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?...6&smon=6&syr=2014&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?...6&smon=6&syr=2014&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=

desperateneptune said:

i really dont want to mess up my life. thank u for taking the time i am posting the charts

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hello desperateneptune,

Perhaps you've answered your question with the quoted part above?

It would take many hours to delineate the charts and may I suggest that you post them as attachments to protect access to your Astro.com account?

best wishes

hi desperateneptune.

the composite chart shows mars opposed to Uranus and square to the nodal axis. eros is opposed to orcus and square the sun/moon midpoint.
these aspects point to a intense sexual/emotional relationship. but Uranus rule independence and in a composite this pattern show an intense affair but with little hope that a serious relationship will develop.
venus is conjunct the sun so their is a real love but ceres is conjunct o Neptune and square to Jupiter. this can give you feeling that a serious even committed relationship is possible. but with Neptune included any talk about commitment is only talk. neptune square to joltier shows deception and lack of commitment.
with the Eros/psyche midpoint conjunct to the mercury/Neptune conjunction, there is a exceptionally romantic feeling between you.words of undying love are likely but just as likely these words will not lead to emotional commitment.

the relationship with the nodal/mars/Uranus pattern is built on sex, whether you acknowledge this or not . the passions are overwhelming but there is no long-term commitment here.
he also has a Uranus/venus square in his natal so there is no question for him this is just an love affair, as he is a player. I think the Neptune/mercury conjunction in the composite shows that his words of lasting love are not sincere.

this is not a composite to build a serious relationship on.

rahu