Hi thank you. Yes, she has been an impactful person on my life, a mother when my own natural one wasn't emotionally available. We do not live with her, but she has helped us a lot over the years. We live about 15 minutes away.
I am going through some mortality realizations, preciousness of life and such, it's quite overwhelming - I think that is why I want to do everything I want to do "now" if I have the power to do it.... if that makes sense.
Being fairly involved with the community and trying to advance measures that will make things better for us artists here (it's a desert truly but so much potential), I do tend to go overboard in my zeal, and then wonder where everybody went. I will watch that for the next year, and try and be a bit more tempered and balanced and calm. (It's better now than it was 10 years ago, that's for sure)
Not planning any surgeries, not for me anyway - should I go to a doctor?
Inheritance - I don't know. I think my husband is her executor, and we haven't talked about it much. To put it delicately, I don't think there is a lot there.
My brother on the other hand - In mid September, he and I have recently reconciled after 6 years of not speaking after my dad's death ... he said he wants to make sure his new young family is not left alone should anything happen to him. He is very well off. I would think his new family would just return back to the country where they came from, as all of their family is there. (Does that make sense?) But I can't see him passing on, he's only 4 years old than me, and not only that, but leaving me any $$. I would be tremendously surprised / shocked if that happened.
I've included my natal. Thank you for looking and for your time.