Do you mean asking him out? That would be too forward, I think. Also what's special about March 10th and early April?
It's cool that you can time events with horary charts. That's something I want to learn how to do.
Hello. I asked this question using horary. I really like my boss but am not sure how he feels about me. So I cast a chart, please see attached.
Signifier of first house (which is me) conjunct that of the 7th (which is him), so I guess this is a good sign? However they are both found in the 12th house, the house of misfortune and all things hidden and bad. Not sure whether this outweighs the conjunction. Moon is badly placed too, in Scorpio.
Can someone try and read the chart please? Thanks.
Two questions though:
Why is my boss represented by the Sun by not Mercury? He is represented by the 7th house so he should be represented by Mercury, right?
And can you tell me what you meant by mercury not having reception with Jupiter?
Thanks.
With exalted Venus on Asc that’s positive as it’s the lesser benefic. However Venus is actually debilitated as it’s approaching combustion. Venus becomes hidden. Venus representing you as a woman and also love in general. In context of the question, Venus combust shows how you feel overpowered by the man ( Sun, your boss). I think there is strong physical attraction between you and he is drawn to you as a woman. I do think being that Venus is right on Asc, emphasis you in someway. Probably makes you more attractive, you place more attention to your outer appearance. Men in general would be more drawn to you. Sun has reception towards Jupiter and Venus, placed in your 1st house- his man side is completely into you. But the thinking part ( mercury) is not in agreement with the man ( Sun) part. There most likely is an internal conflict within him. You said he’s been cold and aloof, this might be the reason.Actually one more question if you don't mind:
What does Venus being in the 1st house mean? You said that the Sun being in the 1st house means he is interested in me. And venus represents me, so when it's in the 1st house, does that mean I love myself? Also, the fact it conjuncts the ascendant exactly makes me think that it's very significant. Plus it's exalted, which means it's very powerful.
Also I have been thinking about Moon (co-significator of the chart) trining him (the sun). Since the moon represents the whole chart, does the fact that she aspects him mean that my manager thinks about it, too?
Thanks.
I'd like to know myself as I'm not seeing anything significant on march the 10th for you to be reaching out to him. Albeit there is a New moon at 22° Pisces on the 13th March but still nothing.
Early April is another New Moon at 22° Aries but once again nothing significant with regards to this chart.
Thanks for the detailed response, sir/madam.
To answer your questions:
I am 41 years old and he is 38. And yes we work at a restaurant. I am not sure whether there would be a consequence or not, if we got together. I never asked. But like someone else said, any type of workplace romance is a bad idea because if people find out, they might think that there is favourtism going on. Like maybe they think I am doing a terrible job but he keeps me around anyway cause we are dating. That sort of things.
Their sigs Mercury and Jupiter meets in 3°,there will be some kind of contact between them in 3 weeks, maybe 3 months as there is lust between them, her Venus is coming closer to his Sun, means she doesn't stop liking him,on the contrary her feelings will grow stronger towards him. his Sun is in the middle of pieces, means he ll continue to be sexually attracted to her. There is no change in their feelings in the near future. And if she wants to ask him out, she ll do it eventually. It ll be hard to resist.
If you ve been doing a good job so far why all of a sudden you ll start doing it terribly when you start dating him.
The things might not work for you and him in the long term - thats the fear you might have,
Quite true. I read somewhere that place of work is where some 30% of people found their romantic partner.Workplace romances are not a rare occurrence anyway.