the synastry looks like he'll be back.
transiting Saturn over his pluto, moon. over your mercury.
which kind of uproots the venus square mercury.
your relationship will become intense and less malefic, but still with problems.
when transiting saturn goes over Sun (fatigue/contstraint/hard experience)
on your part.
transiting saturn across your venus will either stabalize the relationship or it will then come to a structural end after the transit. more likely a stabalization on your part.
he will be having his saturn return afterwards and a karmic existential crisis, but then he will start the second stage of his life.
you have a few predicaments upcoming in the relationship, but not as psychologically bad as this.
you have to wait about 2-3 months for normalization from this then on to different kinds of energies. easier energies in some ways harder in others.
it is better for you to not rag on him later on during saturn return for example as he will know in his heart what he did wrong or right.
once transiting saturn gets to that Ac point in scorpio you should be in the clear, so the next year and a half is a transition.