love-thinking
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Upon entering a painful and passionate relationship, I've studied astrology and synastry and I've come to a conclusion and I wonder how much this is true.
There are certain passionate synastry aspects and "sex appeal aspects" that may appeal to some people to have. The most famous are probably, pluto, neptune, juno, and venus aspects. But I feel like there are negative sides to each and every kind.
I will start off with pluto. Pluto is obsession. It is dark, potent, and overwhelming. Having this in synastry is basically unexplainable, for no reason obsession. People with pluto aspects and scorpionic aspects tend to have oozing sexuality and give off a femme fatale or a very mysterious vibe that draws people in like a moth to a flame. This is especially true for venus-pluto, sun-pluto and moon-pluto, even juno-pluto aspects. You tend to attract to you obsessive relationships and even very potent friendships. People don't forget you easily but you're not idealized. The negative side to this is that you can get obsessed if you are not careful if you have this natally. In a very plutonic relationship, the dynamics that can occur is sure the other person will be obsessed with you and very loyal towards you, but they will not be friendly. They will give you the impression that they are with you but they can do better. Remember, pluto is the garbage man, he will transform you. He will fix whatever negative traits about you he can find. He'll take your flaws and transform it. Most likely, this person is with you because he sees a part of you in himself/herself. You're their project. You are attached to him/her on the hip, and they will criticize you like they criticize themselves in the mirror. When dating, pluto is dating himself, another aspect of himself. So good news, he or she will obsess over you and be loyal, bad news, your self esteem is dead.
(I am in a plutonic relationship. He sees me as how he used to be when he was younger. I'm the shy chubby beautiful girl that needs to be built up from the ashes just like he used to be. But nevertheless, he's way too into me in a creepy way but I love it )
Neptune aspects are wonderful in relationships and natally. You exude your internal beauty on the outside. You're truly seen as beautiful and sometimes even ideal. So even if you are pretty, you are seen as beautiful, if you are beautiful, you are gorgeous. But you're like a show piece. You will attract men, or women into your life that will unconditionally love you and will do you many favours. They will and cannot hurt you. You are seen as very fragile, almost untouchable. You're the knight in shining armor if you're a male, and the damsel in distress if you are a female. People won't act like they are obsessed with you, or that you're irresistable. Don't be expecting animalistic sex if neptune aspects are all that you have. But do expect people to be willing to move mountains for you. You're kind of like chiron, you will love unconditionally and receive unconditionally. You're also like a Psyche archetype or the untouchable nymph. However, you're all about ideals, appearances, princes and princesses, fantasies, dreams, candle light dinners etc. Neptune in synastry would probably be wonderful probably up until the fantasy or the fog has worn off. Both of you see eachother as something ideal and beautiful just as long as you two keep up eachother's expectations.
Also, I think one specific theme with neptune is the neptune person being too good for the other person and because this neptune person is too good, it's like they're almost untouchable. It's like beauty and the beast. You never want hurt or irritate neptune because they're like an angel sent down from heaven and you know she/he's too good for you. You're basically what they can't believe is possible every day. With some neptune aspects natally, you love being exactly that, a fantasy. So you'll constantly date people that need rescuing, or people you are too good for. So think, the rich man that dates the cinderellas or the beauty and the beast.
Juno is probably the most interesting of all of them. Juno is very ironic. Natally, if you have this, you exude more sex appeal than even pluto. However, your appeal wears off fast. Your relationships are short and if they are long, they are chaotic. Remember the story of Zeus and Hera. Zeus had to have Hera no matter what. He raped her and then shamed her into marrying him and then cheated on her repeatedly while she remained extremely faithful. Also remember she was the most beautiful woman of them all, even more beautiful than Venus possibly. So Juno aspects mean you'll be taken advantage of in all ways possible. Unlike presophone, you're already a woman in every single way, a perfect goddess. You'll be taken granted of in relationships in every single way. You'll be the diamond that'll be put in a drawer and forgotten about. Nobody needs to change you. But too much perfection gets boring. Your theme if you have many juno aspects that is initial passion, marked by heartbreaks and infidelity. You're the woman whose boyfriend cheated on you with the uglier bestfriend. You're the woman whose perfection does you no good. Let's say you have this aspect with your significant other and he is faithful, he will make it very clear that other women exist, and his eyes are open. But it's as if your perfection is just not appreciated. You are so perfect that you're way too boring, too perfect for anyone to handle. You're also obviously not treated like an insecure woman, you're treated like 'you're so beautiful that you'll be able to handle it when I talk about other women because you are more beautiful than them or you have it all anyways, what else could you want?.' In reality, you're probably the most insecure. But basically, if you have way too many juno aspects, expect to be treated like a sexy bisexual in relationships. Juno-venus, chiron, mars, neptune aspects, in magi astrology means that after marriage, the sexual passion will wear off. Just like how zeus had a two year honey moon with hera and then proceeded to cheat on her upon their return.
Venus would simply give you good looks. She wouldn't make you irresistable or mysterious, or untouchable. You'll simply be the pretty girl next door or even the prettiest girl in the neighbourhood. You'll have relationships, probably multiple relationships. But they will probably be more light hearted and easier than pluto and juno. Venus and mars can be passionate but still light-hearted compared to Pluto. You won't be idealized like neptune, draw people in like pluto, or even be too perfect to be interesting like Juno. You'll simply be the archetype of the attractive girl with not too much depth and your relationships will reflect that. Hey, at least you won't be cheated on but you'll cheat and at least you'll be interesting enough to keep around.
Lilith will be obsessive like Pluto and you will definitely send out femme fatale or mysterious vibes. But I believe lilith can have more themes of infidelity than pluto can. Lilith had adam obsessed but left him once she realized her power. With lilith, think of presophone growing up.
Chiron is similar to neptune. People are drawn to you because you can heal wounds. I'm not too sure if you can create an untouchable or out of world vibe to you. But I believe these aspects can probably aid all the cougars and sugar daddies out there
I would love an astrologer's output on what I have observed.
I also think each theme has a lesson of its own. Neptune is probably the best love theme with the least lessons. With pluto, the lesson is boundaries. Just because a person reminds you of yourself, and you think that they are your soulmate, doesn't mean they are you. You have to give them their space and stop treating them like you can do or say whatever to them. They are not your possession, your other half or you! With Juno, the lesson is perfection that has to do with superficiality is NEVER enough. As the juno person, you need to find yourself, and let your self-worth be more than just looks, or how much you can please the opposite sex. With venus, the lesson is to probably stop being self centered. But the difference between venus and juno is, venus' self-worth is defined as her beauty in relation to herself and juno's is her beauty relative to a man's desire for her looks which is zeus. Neptune is similar to psyche, it is refined love, it is the kind of love everyone should be aiming for. If there is a lesson to be learnt, it is to stop being too self-sacrificing and to stop trying to change yourself to be someone else's fantasy although I think with neptune, the lessons are not as harsh as the other ones.
There are certain passionate synastry aspects and "sex appeal aspects" that may appeal to some people to have. The most famous are probably, pluto, neptune, juno, and venus aspects. But I feel like there are negative sides to each and every kind.
I will start off with pluto. Pluto is obsession. It is dark, potent, and overwhelming. Having this in synastry is basically unexplainable, for no reason obsession. People with pluto aspects and scorpionic aspects tend to have oozing sexuality and give off a femme fatale or a very mysterious vibe that draws people in like a moth to a flame. This is especially true for venus-pluto, sun-pluto and moon-pluto, even juno-pluto aspects. You tend to attract to you obsessive relationships and even very potent friendships. People don't forget you easily but you're not idealized. The negative side to this is that you can get obsessed if you are not careful if you have this natally. In a very plutonic relationship, the dynamics that can occur is sure the other person will be obsessed with you and very loyal towards you, but they will not be friendly. They will give you the impression that they are with you but they can do better. Remember, pluto is the garbage man, he will transform you. He will fix whatever negative traits about you he can find. He'll take your flaws and transform it. Most likely, this person is with you because he sees a part of you in himself/herself. You're their project. You are attached to him/her on the hip, and they will criticize you like they criticize themselves in the mirror. When dating, pluto is dating himself, another aspect of himself. So good news, he or she will obsess over you and be loyal, bad news, your self esteem is dead.
(I am in a plutonic relationship. He sees me as how he used to be when he was younger. I'm the shy chubby beautiful girl that needs to be built up from the ashes just like he used to be. But nevertheless, he's way too into me in a creepy way but I love it )
Neptune aspects are wonderful in relationships and natally. You exude your internal beauty on the outside. You're truly seen as beautiful and sometimes even ideal. So even if you are pretty, you are seen as beautiful, if you are beautiful, you are gorgeous. But you're like a show piece. You will attract men, or women into your life that will unconditionally love you and will do you many favours. They will and cannot hurt you. You are seen as very fragile, almost untouchable. You're the knight in shining armor if you're a male, and the damsel in distress if you are a female. People won't act like they are obsessed with you, or that you're irresistable. Don't be expecting animalistic sex if neptune aspects are all that you have. But do expect people to be willing to move mountains for you. You're kind of like chiron, you will love unconditionally and receive unconditionally. You're also like a Psyche archetype or the untouchable nymph. However, you're all about ideals, appearances, princes and princesses, fantasies, dreams, candle light dinners etc. Neptune in synastry would probably be wonderful probably up until the fantasy or the fog has worn off. Both of you see eachother as something ideal and beautiful just as long as you two keep up eachother's expectations.
Also, I think one specific theme with neptune is the neptune person being too good for the other person and because this neptune person is too good, it's like they're almost untouchable. It's like beauty and the beast. You never want hurt or irritate neptune because they're like an angel sent down from heaven and you know she/he's too good for you. You're basically what they can't believe is possible every day. With some neptune aspects natally, you love being exactly that, a fantasy. So you'll constantly date people that need rescuing, or people you are too good for. So think, the rich man that dates the cinderellas or the beauty and the beast.
Juno is probably the most interesting of all of them. Juno is very ironic. Natally, if you have this, you exude more sex appeal than even pluto. However, your appeal wears off fast. Your relationships are short and if they are long, they are chaotic. Remember the story of Zeus and Hera. Zeus had to have Hera no matter what. He raped her and then shamed her into marrying him and then cheated on her repeatedly while she remained extremely faithful. Also remember she was the most beautiful woman of them all, even more beautiful than Venus possibly. So Juno aspects mean you'll be taken advantage of in all ways possible. Unlike presophone, you're already a woman in every single way, a perfect goddess. You'll be taken granted of in relationships in every single way. You'll be the diamond that'll be put in a drawer and forgotten about. Nobody needs to change you. But too much perfection gets boring. Your theme if you have many juno aspects that is initial passion, marked by heartbreaks and infidelity. You're the woman whose boyfriend cheated on you with the uglier bestfriend. You're the woman whose perfection does you no good. Let's say you have this aspect with your significant other and he is faithful, he will make it very clear that other women exist, and his eyes are open. But it's as if your perfection is just not appreciated. You are so perfect that you're way too boring, too perfect for anyone to handle. You're also obviously not treated like an insecure woman, you're treated like 'you're so beautiful that you'll be able to handle it when I talk about other women because you are more beautiful than them or you have it all anyways, what else could you want?.' In reality, you're probably the most insecure. But basically, if you have way too many juno aspects, expect to be treated like a sexy bisexual in relationships. Juno-venus, chiron, mars, neptune aspects, in magi astrology means that after marriage, the sexual passion will wear off. Just like how zeus had a two year honey moon with hera and then proceeded to cheat on her upon their return.
Venus would simply give you good looks. She wouldn't make you irresistable or mysterious, or untouchable. You'll simply be the pretty girl next door or even the prettiest girl in the neighbourhood. You'll have relationships, probably multiple relationships. But they will probably be more light hearted and easier than pluto and juno. Venus and mars can be passionate but still light-hearted compared to Pluto. You won't be idealized like neptune, draw people in like pluto, or even be too perfect to be interesting like Juno. You'll simply be the archetype of the attractive girl with not too much depth and your relationships will reflect that. Hey, at least you won't be cheated on but you'll cheat and at least you'll be interesting enough to keep around.
Lilith will be obsessive like Pluto and you will definitely send out femme fatale or mysterious vibes. But I believe lilith can have more themes of infidelity than pluto can. Lilith had adam obsessed but left him once she realized her power. With lilith, think of presophone growing up.
Chiron is similar to neptune. People are drawn to you because you can heal wounds. I'm not too sure if you can create an untouchable or out of world vibe to you. But I believe these aspects can probably aid all the cougars and sugar daddies out there
I would love an astrologer's output on what I have observed.
I also think each theme has a lesson of its own. Neptune is probably the best love theme with the least lessons. With pluto, the lesson is boundaries. Just because a person reminds you of yourself, and you think that they are your soulmate, doesn't mean they are you. You have to give them their space and stop treating them like you can do or say whatever to them. They are not your possession, your other half or you! With Juno, the lesson is perfection that has to do with superficiality is NEVER enough. As the juno person, you need to find yourself, and let your self-worth be more than just looks, or how much you can please the opposite sex. With venus, the lesson is to probably stop being self centered. But the difference between venus and juno is, venus' self-worth is defined as her beauty in relation to herself and juno's is her beauty relative to a man's desire for her looks which is zeus. Neptune is similar to psyche, it is refined love, it is the kind of love everyone should be aiming for. If there is a lesson to be learnt, it is to stop being too self-sacrificing and to stop trying to change yourself to be someone else's fantasy although I think with neptune, the lessons are not as harsh as the other ones.
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