Need more info but initially, your Cancer Ascendant is ruled by the Moon which is your feeling nature. It is in the fire sign of Sagittarius in the 6th house which is a candent house meaning (falling off). It has a weakening effect on the planets contained within and can cause you to internalize the planet workings - so your emotions are turned inward. Perhaps this is why you are having trouble connecting with emotional people since you are not emoting. On top of that, your 7th house of relationships is ruled by Capricorn which is somewhat of a cold sign. This says your partner would most likely carry a certain coldness or seriousness about them.
The part about them getting away with something might speak to your 12th house of secret enemies where Jupiter resides in Gemini - another non-watery (emotional) position and in detriment meaning it has challenges fully expressing its benefic expression. It is also retrograde which turns its energies inside as well.
The 12th house and Jupiter in Gemini is ruled by Mercury which is in your house of romance. Mercury is in the watery sign of Scorpio but is Combust your Sun in Scorpio which has burning effect on Mercury - sort of drying the emotions out. It's hard to see Mercury or be aware of its Scorpio nature because the Sun's rays hide it.
So how do you overcome this picture? Get more in touch with your own feelings and you will then attract similar resonances.
Very well stated.
In addition, moon (you as ascendent, and how you project yourself towards the world) is square mars, who rules the 11th of friends.
You might seem at the same time aloof, cancer tends to be shy and reserved and easily bruised, and also become easily irritated with your friends. Mars in virgo tends to want to be helpful by criticising and pointing out faults, which isn't always well accepted by others. In addition, given the uneasy relationship with moon in sagittarius, you might just blurt these comments out, with the result of alienating others.
The other very important factor is the 7th in Capricorn, so yes here too, you attract reserved, cold types as partners, as well as older persons.